How do you flirt if youre not confident in yourself and am shy?

Question

Hi im not a confident girl who hasnt had much experience with guys so was wondering what kind of ways to flirt to show a guy im interested

Answer 1

Make eye contact and smile (lots!), he will do the rest.

Answer 2

Talking can be a subtle but very effective way to make a guy know your interested. If you can strike up a conversation about something that they find interesting, this way you have an excuse to look them in the eyes for a long period of time. Also it will help them to feel a potential connection being built. You can throw in a few hair flicks if you like, but better to not make it too obvious.

Answer 3

Make eye contact, smile, and appear cheerful and approachable! That way he gets a good vibe from you and shouldn't hesitate going over to you and saying hello!
Also if you happen to, say, be in a queue or waiting for a drink at the bar, you could say something relating to a current situation (eg smile and say "blimey, it'll take ages to get served here, won't it?" make sure you say it cheerfully so it's clear you're not moaning).
Usually, this will start a conversation. From there just see how it goes, give him a subtle compliment and see how they react, what their body language is. If they don't really talk back and stay quiet, then they're just boring sods who wouldn't be worth talking to anyway.

Answer 4

You have a problem. All your questions are about how to catch a guy. I hope it is not one certain guy that you are trying to hook. We do not let ourselves get caught so easily and when a girl comes on too strong, we might think she is cheap.
Just be your loving self and the right guy will notice you. If he is not the right guy, do not get too involved, because then Mr Right might think you are not available.

It is a difficult life, but that is how it works. My Mom said that a girl has to kiss a lot of toads before one turns into a prince.

Pity you are so far from where I live.

Answer 5

Make sure your hair is RADIANT
full of life and bounce because hair and eyes are the sexiest attributes women have so just look at who takes your fancy with your beautiful eyes and just run your fingers through your hair and even though im only speaking personally a womans hair is at its sexiest when it either has stunning curls that suite the woman DONT have curls if you know they dont work for you just have your hair long (as long as it goes) shiny and looking natural and deep coloured whether you are blonde, black haired or brunette

and there isnt a guy in the world who wont find that sexy

Answer 6

Maybe you don't have to, someone might find a shy person with no confidence interesting, don't see why you have to change just to get on, they can take you as you are...

Answer 7

it doesn't matter if your shy just flash a smile and brush past him when you walk past. Dont worry that he wont like you cause if it doesn't work then you wont see him again anyway also if it's a guy you know, when ur talking to him make sure you laugh loudly at his jokes and compliment him-guys are so self-centered that they'll love it!

Answer 8

Make eye contract and smile at him. They are the two mean ones to try. Good luck

Answer 9

No need to flirt love, just be yourself and smile. Remember, guys also feel shy sometimes and welcome girls who don't come on too strong. Good luck.

Answer 10

walk up and say that u think he is cute and ask for his number or just give him your and walk away if he calls then you just flirted in ur own way