i have tried everything to get her to potty train like bribery punishment by taking her toys away her tv or even go out to play. She knows the concept of uding the potty because sometimes she tells me she has to go but only to pee, when she poops she goes and hides and right after she does she wants to be changed I don't what I am supposed to do to get her to use the potty on a daily basis?
2006-10-06 06:36:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Just keep trying or take off the training pants or diaper. Take her to buy some panties that she really likes and explain to her that when she poops she will have to go in the potty or she will get them all messy and won't be able to wear those panties anymore.
My niece had the same problem. She didn't want to poop in the potty and it took her until she was 4 before she started. Just keep trying and she will take to it soon enough.
2006-10-06 06:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son the same age and he just got potty trained and it was hard to get him to use the poty so we just let him pee out side ( we live in the country) and put underwere on him and had him sit on the potty every 10 min and it took about 3 weeks but he finally got it. The going pee outside probablly wouldnt work with a girl but try the other things it might help.
2006-10-06 06:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by netta_t22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter was just a little over 3 yrs old when we got her potty trained. what i did was, let her wear dresses, not good dresses mind you, just every day play dresses, and go bare bottomed. i put the training potty in the living room , where she played the most. as long as she didnt have anything covering her bottom, she would realize that she needed to use the training potty. but if she was wearing panties or pull ups, she would mess up every time. we did this for a few wks and she eventually wanted to use the grown up potty, and want her pretty princess panties:)...other things that help are having kids around her, near her age that go to the potty, and letting them see them go, and you go, they learn from immitation. and pay attention to the times she goes poopy, figure out her pattern, and start sitting her on the potty at those times.....and don't pressure her...she'll figure it out....there is no rule book that says she "has" to be trained by a certain age. take it one day at a time..
good luck:)
2006-10-06 08:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by patty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr Phil says he can potty train a child in 1 day with his method. Basically he uses a doll and has the child teach the doll to use the potty. He did a special on it once and used a celebrity couple's 2 yr old little boy and it seemed to work really well.
2006-10-06 06:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by dmariev97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have over done it with the potty training on her. Sometimes by forcing a child to potty train they regress and will not do it. They can become scared. Punishing her isn't going to fix it. Some children fear their pop leaving them. They don't understand that it is okay for that part of them to leave their body. I would be calm a patient with her.
I found this
E -- Explain the process
Show your child where his bowel movements go. The next time he poops in his diaper, take him to his potty, sit him down, and empty the diaper beneath him into the bowl. This will help him make the connection between sitting and pooping. Empty his potty into the big toilet and let him flush if he wants to so he can see where it goes. (Don't make him do it if he's scared.) Teach him to dress himself and wash his hands when he's done.
Work with her slowly, be understanding, instead of being mad when she messes up, say we will try again next time. Have her clean up herself when she messes. This would connect to her crime of going in her undies.
Make sure when you punish her the punishment fits the crime. Kids connect it better.....
You can be sure she will not go to Kindergarten in diapers.
2006-10-06 06:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are gonna ought to get more difficult on her. Sounds to me like she wishes the concentration, so she's now not looking to rough. At her age, you'll be able to inform her that she's a significant woman, purchase her the panties, and preserve reminding her each 30 min. or as a way to pass potty. If she has an twist of fate, she will aid to wash up by means of striking her garments within the laundry basket, entering the bathtub (we left a bucket of water within the bathtub for injuries, the men wiped clean themselves off utilizing a jug!), and dressing herself afterwards. Rewards are well too! Buy that toy she's been asking approximately and inform her if she will begin utilizing the potty like a significant woman, it is hers... Good success!
2016-08-29 06:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by rentschler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will start when she is ready. Typically you won't be able to force a toddler to use the potty. Try encouragement vs. punishment and be persistent about asking her if she needs to go. Try asking at certain times; like before a nap, bath, shower, after eating or drinking. Be very excited when she does go and this will encourage her to go more often.Keep a close eye on her and catch her before she goes! Good luck.
2006-10-06 06:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY DAUGHTER HAD THE SAME PROBLEMS AS YOU...!
When she was almost 3...she wouldn't poopoo properly and would hide in the corner until she's done.....this is how i finally worked out....
1. After every meal.......drink fruit juice, or lots of water......
2. Bring her to the adult potty
3. make the room smell pleasent
4. prepare interesting books and read to her or even sing to her
5. make her relax as much as you could.....try to make her laugh
6. try to make her forget she's on the potty.....
7. u can bring toys to make her stay as long as possible
8. the first few times may not work....but praise her for just sitting there and having fun with you
9. after a few more times....she should get used to it
10. it will come.....more or less
11. remember to always praise her..............never make her feel fightened for being on the potty too long and nothing happens
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-06 06:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow and they say boys are harder than girls. My son will be 4 at the end of this month, and has been potty trained for the past two years. I say throw her in underwear and let her go, she will get it really fast, because she won't like feeling the wetness. Ya it is alot of clean up, but it won't be forever. She is old enough to know.
2006-10-06 06:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by TIA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for a start do not punish her! anything but punishment - thats not going to encourage her or send her good signs atall.
try a potty chart and give her stickers everytime she uses the potty, show her praise and tell her how clever she is for doing a wee in the potty. you need to be consistant with it. some children are scared of doing poo's -they just need alot of encouragment and support.
2006-10-06 06:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by alrightyyy_then 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋