I went to a party last night and I drank a lot. I was with my female friend only. The next morning I was really sore. I smelled wierd stuff on me also. I asked my female friend what happened but she didn't remember also. After 1.5 month, I found out that I am pregnant, How should I tell my parents? How should I tell my boyfriend that I got raped and got pregnant?
2006-10-06 06:29:30 · 17 answers · asked by Amy T. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell your boyfriend you got pregnant
2006-10-07 02:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to back track what the events of the night were, I think you were slipped something in your drink.a drug.Because you both don't have any memory of the night,not good. You really need to get to a doctor and find out how far along you are,and yes you should tell your parents,as a mother I have an open door policy with my kids. I will not judge you!! please don't ever feel scared to tell me anything. I'm sure if you explain this to your parents they will understand.You don't know anything about the guy who raped you,he might have aids or he might be doing this to other women and this is not good. The child you are caring might not be well, there are a lot of things you need to look at here, do you want to be a mother now? Plus do you what to have a child not know anything about the father? You need to talk to someone,someone you can trust who will help you.You need to do this ASAP!!! Go to Plan Parenthood they will be able to help you, it's confidential they will gave all the options so that you can make the right decision for you. Moreover, you need to find out who this person was,this is very important. Find out the people who were at the party and go from there. Call the police maybe they will help you, was this a college party? I hope you find answers soon, Peace!! I wish you all the best and good luck.
2006-10-06 13:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom or another adult that you can trust. Then you need to get to the Dr. and have test run to make sure that you didn't get any diseases. Then you'll have to get the police involved. Sit down with your friend & make a list of who all was at the party & if need be talk to someone else from the party & see if they remember seeing you getting cozy with a guy. They don't have to know why you are asking. Just say that you wanted to talk with them cause you had a good time with him.{not true but they don't need 2 know}. Best of Luck to you & your baby.
2006-10-06 13:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you, I think its best to tell what happened and I hope your parents and boyfriend will help you out. Then next I would start to think what are you going to do with the baby? Are you going to keep it or not. Its a hard time for you a head but I wish you all the good luck and that you would make the right choice for you and the baby.
2006-10-06 13:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you need to tell someone about you being raped cause that's not something little that's big and as for your mom and dad I'm sure they will help you out and girl for your BOYFRIEND well if he loves you he will be right by your side
you really need to talk to someone and i mean dint let this go any longer
2006-10-06 13:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow , i would try and investigate what actually happened. Then i would tell my parents. When they know what's going they will hopeful be able to help you plan the rest of your life after these events.
Good luck and god bless
i will pray for you.
2006-10-06 13:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. u need to nip this in the bud right away. talk to your mom first. asap. you have a lot to hadle in the next 7 months. the sooner the better. but again talk to your mom first, and then your boyfriend. i wish u all the luck.
2006-10-06 13:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by yankeesarethechamps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell someone right away! and you need to see a doctor and get an hiv test, it is really scary, but please, please do the right thing. Bieng raped (drunk or not) is not your fault and you need to be honest about it and you need to seek some counseling because there are going to be emotional issues you are not consciously aware of yet that will come, especially between you and your baby. I am sorry for you, but please take care of yourself.
2006-10-06 13:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant call it rape..u dont remember so u could have been raped or it could have been consentual u tell ur parents what happened and grow up about it
2006-10-06 13:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gyrl.... You have to be completely honest... Don't lie about anything.... Tell them the truth from beginning to end.... They can't be Mad at the truth, only you.... Prepare yourself to answer alot of questions..... Including the 'What do you plan on doing with it?' (abortion).....
Don't do ANYTHING You don't want to.......
2006-10-06 13:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋