How should I deal with her?

Question

Heres the deal, I have been working out with this great girl for months now in the gym.
See is pretty, smart, funny, and fit.

All the things I could want in a woman. We have great talks and spend more time talking than working out.

Problem is she has a boyfriend, and my feelings for her are growing stronger. I am sure see has feelings for me how should I handle this

But we arrange our work outs,
She is not just some random girl in the gym.

IF you had a man would you always be meeting up with some guy all the time and working out with him?

By the way her man is out of shape from what she has been telling me

Answer 1

Some of these people are idiots!

Don't plan a trick behind her back, she'll be pissed off at you. You dont want to start something based on a lie!

I agree with the one girl...if she is that into her b/f, where is he? Why is she allowing you to grow this close? Perhaps there is something missing in her relationship with him. If she just wants a friend, she is out of line with you. Does her b/f know about you? If not, ask her why and tell her how you feel. See how she reacts. You'll know.

Answer 2

Try flirting with her, in a light, funny way. At some point, if she seems into it, jokingly drop "it's too bad you have a boyfriend -- it's really taking away from our quality time together" (or some cheeky line like that). Of course, it has to be done in a humorous, non-creepy way, but if she responds by flirting back, you might have a shot. Patience is the key.

Answer 3

If she's taken, it's not really much you can do. When the both of you are talking one day ask her "If you didn't have a b/f right now, do you think you would consider dating me?" Depending on how she answers, it will clue you in on whether she's really feeling you or not. In the meantime, keep getting to know her and be her friend. If luck has it your way, she'll break up with her b/f and might consider dating you.

Answer 4

Honestly, i would tell her how you felt. Girls usually keep their feelings inside especially when they don't know if a guy likes them. If she doesn't like you, you need to respect that though, she won't dump you're friendship, im sure. But, have confedince, put on a smile and give it a shot. You'll never know till you try it!!!

Answer 5

Ask her out. Maybe he isn't that much of a boyfriend to her anymore. If you ask her out .. you can find out once and for all. Otherwise, don't say anything and you can keep the friendship going. It's a risk. Good Luck! :)

Answer 6

stay friends with her. and then when she needs a shoulder to cry on there you are. lol. but seriously. just telll her you like her and you dont want to interfere with the relationship she has now. because maybe shes just waiting for you to say something. if not. then either stay friends and wait it out, or theres other girls. but either way just stay friends with her. you never know when lifes gonna throw you a curve ball.

Answer 7

Don't tell her. Wait til the boyfriend is gone out of her life. If you tell her--things will become awkward and you will lose a friend.

Answer 8

Leave her alone she might have one of those body builder type men as a boyfriend. She is just looking for conversation and not a reltionship.

Answer 9

Go plan a mischievous trick behind her back. Like say to her boyfriend that your her boyfriend or what not. He'll leave her and she will be yours... if you dont use your actual name to him.

Answer 10

tell her st8t up look u live once adn life 2 short b.c u scared of somthing just tell her look i now u got a man but i lyk u
u got it get dat grl :-]