i m a 24 yr old guy should be having sex constantly, but its been like 2 years i dunno wahts goin on but the longer this continues the more timid and unsecure i get, what should i do.
2006-10-06 06:08:47 · 27 answers · asked by ihaveat0aster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe that's not your thing.
2006-10-06 06:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by J.C. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I went about 2.5 years and only had sex with 2 guys. I thought it was a problem too, but then I also realized that I needed that 'downtime' to appreciate having a man now. I love being with him more than ever because I've realized that I won't ever base a relationship off sex because I know how to live without it.
If you need to get laid, just go to a bar and have a couple drinks, find the girl who's in there looking and wear a condom. No one will judge you, believe me.
2006-10-06 06:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure 2 years is no record and who says a 24 yr old guy should be having sex constantly?! If that were the case for you, you'd probably have a disease and/or children you don't want. Be thankful and be patient. There's no record that I know of of someone dying from lack of sex.
2006-10-06 06:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband about a year ago. It had been about a year since i had any sex and about three years for him. We were both just waiting for something more serious to come along. I never could have sex with someone that I wasn't physically and emotionally attracted to. Do you go out and try to meet people? Maybe going out and meeting girls, guys whichever you prefer would help. Think about what you are looking for or wanting from someone. Then try to find that. And don't be insecure and timid. There isn't any reason anyone should feel that way. There is always someone else wanting to have sex with you. You just have to look for them.
2006-10-06 06:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is not like food, shelter, clothing and appropriate hygiene. It's not necessary for life, good health (physical or mental), or good self care. It feels good. Period. It does have some health benefits, but those benefits can be had elsewhere as well. The only thing it clearly ADDS to you life is a brief good feeling. It should not be the central focus in your life.
Spend time with people you like. Try to become the person you want to be. Over time, you'll make some friends, enjoy yourself, and you may have the opportunity to meet someone with whom you can develop feelings and, yes, eventually have sex.
Sex for its own sake is not an indispensable part of the human condition.
2014-03-05 04:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dude thats terrible!! I heard guys should have sex at least twice a week if not more to live a happy and secure lifestyle!
Well best advice to you is go get out more hit the clubs,bars,just about anywhere and go pick one up.I met my former boyfriend in a club.Even though we were both drunk.lol.
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2006-10-08 04:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get you a hooker. I know people say that you could catch AIDS and stuff, but you can get that from a woman you meet that is not a hooker. look at it this way.....#1. A hooker don't care what your name is, where you come from, who your family is. #2. They will be here a long time after you are gone! #3. You spend less money to get one rather then dating a girl( Movies, Dinner, Drinks, Dancing, Shoes, Traveling to and from her house). #4. You want to get laid! So hooker's have a good side. I spent a good old time with one and this is how it went down.....I came to the house( No Dad, Mom,Little Brother,Sister) went to her room and she put the condom on me after she washed me down, we went right into the sexual motions, no chit-chat. I was done, paid her and went on my way...Now you tell me where can you find a woman like that? And hooker's are from other countries( FUN,FUN,FUN!).
2006-10-06 06:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by james m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it sex isn't everything. Wouldn't you rather meet someone you have a really deep connection with and build a relationship or do you just want to get laid? Getting laid isn't that hard there are plenty of drunk slutty girls at any club every single weekend if that's all you want, which it sounds like you do, but if your insecure they smell that a mile away.
2006-10-06 06:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by GT Guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i read some of the comments and i can tell there really isn't any good answers for your lack of sex. one of my good buddies went though the same lack of sex period.
Do you go out and try to pick you girls partying at a club/bar? cause that will help your chances greatly, if you do. c'mon no pussy is going to come to ya if you sitting at home playing playstation.
Another solution is having friends & family maybe hook you up with a girl. who knows prolly soon enough you'll be having sex with her.
there is also masterbation. yes, its is sex. just not with anyone.
2006-10-06 06:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by wmhg2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be timid and insecure i'm sure your really sexy! maybe girls are just too scared to go up to you and ask you out because they might think your some casanova(aka the ladies man) and think you already have a girlfriend.Anyways 24 aint that bad!
Anyways I haven't had sex in three months..because now im single so you aint the only one!
2006-10-08 05:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by MandaPandaXoX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're obviously not a suave ladies man. you just ain't got it goin on with babes. Now, if you're really wanting sum, get you a fat girl to practice on. They're easy lays and they're very appreciatve. fat gurls need luvin' too. Pick one up in a bar. Grab her early cuz if you wait too late, all the drunk dudes who haven't scored a hottie, will start hitting on the fat girls. If that's not your thing, maybe you could turn gay?
2006-10-06 06:49:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋