I have a friend...we go to dinner everynight!!!...talk on the phone all day!!...text message eachother every 2 seconds..lol...he even got me my phone on his plan...we make passionate love every NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!....we r together 24/7...i know alllll his friends/family...anything i need hes there .i mean he will come over to my job take me to lunch then fill up my gas tank!!!!!!....im not sure what to think....it took me A LONG! time to even kiss him like 3 years and I WAS DRUNK when it happened...i mean i REALLY like this guy and not just because he does so much for me...cause i also look after him...im confertable with the fact the i can do all the LOVEY DOVEY things with him and not feel like im tied down.....BUT!!!!!!!!!...then at times i want that feeling of having a BF!....what do i do!!...i talk to other guys...i dont kiss or anything like that...but i do have guy friends that i talk to..and he has his friends....WHY DOESNT HE JUST COME OUT AND ASK ME TO BE HIS GF?????!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 05:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by He's my Sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he has feelings for me I CAN TELL!!!!..i can feel them when we r together...nobody looks at just anybody the way he does he can just stare at me!!.or when i fall asleep he will lay there and caress my head and..when he holds me and tells me not to go...i just dont know!!!!!!!!!!!!..its crazy!!
2006-10-06 06:02:20 · update #1
i'm sorry to say, but he might be using you. :(***..... i mean, it's like that saying "why buy the cow, when he's getting milk for free"?
u are pretty much acting like his gf, but there's no title there. of COURSE ur getting antsy about it! there's something Respectful about having the title of being someone's girlfriend or boyfriend....ownership, showing to the world u are together, no one else is involved..u are committing...etc etc... u know?
if i were u, i'd stop this nonsense, and ask him straight out. say, "i know we're friends, but i feel that we are so much more. i want to know what u think about being in a relationship?" and he can explain to you what he feels about having a girlfriend, or having YOU as a girlfriend. if he hesitates, hems and haws, beats around the bushes....STOP being his booty call. and stop using him as one. find someone who really wants to be your man!!! someone who respects you!! and if he is interested, great. but u have to realize that he is not really the type of guy who steps up to the plate, and makes good decisions, or takes charge..u may have to wear the pants..sometimes that is annoying. the kind of man I want is someone who goes for what he wants, and knows how to be honest, and respect me, and do waht it takes to prove his character..and i want to do the same, as a good woman. good luck!
2006-10-06 06:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel about him. See what he says. Otherwise, ask him out. Maybe he's got other people on the side if he doesn't want to commit after all you two have done together. Just a thought. Goodluck and hopefully it won't be so confusing anymore.
2006-10-06 06:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by emt_jennijo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him: "i'm sorry yet i'm truly basically no longer feeling any component between us. i could quite savour some area. it quite is not something against you, I basically don't experience any kinda of spark, ya understand?" basically it quite is a beneficial way of asserting back off you grimy perv, i do no longer choose any component of do with you and what you decide on basically ain't gonna ensue so wander away. (shop that for later if he does not provide you area, and weigh down him once you do it. astonishing it off with kicking him interior the groin)
2016-10-15 21:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are his girlfriend. Maybe, the next time he does something sweet, say, "I have the nicest boyfriend in the world!" and give him a little kiss. He will either smile & kiss you back, or say, "Boyfriend?? What are you talking about?" Then you'll know.
2006-10-06 06:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE his girlfriend nut.
Wake up- hello....
Do you mean- "Why don't we talk about taking this relationship to the next level- marriage... or such?"
You are his girlfriend. He is your boyfriend. Not because you say you are but because YOU ARE.
We are defined not by what we want to be but by WHAT WE DO.
You are his girlfriend. Now go bang him and tell him you love him.
2006-10-06 06:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Frust Parent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a couple to me. So, why not just ask him, "hey, we are playing all the roles of a couple, are we?" And tell him how you feel.
2006-10-06 06:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by hellomyfriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why you wonder? If you were his girlfriend, you'd know. There's a really good book that helped me through this last time it happened to me. "He's just not that into you". Don't feel bad it happens to all of us.
2006-10-06 06:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by Roni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take the initiative and ask him to be your bf? It sounds like he's an awesome guy, so go for it!!
2006-10-06 06:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like it is assumed that you two are a couple... why does he have to formally ask you? Has he ever said you weren't a couple? Why don't you come out and ask him if it bothers you so much???
2006-10-06 06:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he have to be the one to do that?? why cant u go and approach him...times have changed honey if u spend ur life waiting on guys..u will NEVER get anything done!!
2006-10-06 06:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋