I am just wondering, how many of us consider compatibility when choosing who we date? It is my experience that people too easily sacrfice compatibility and chase someone more attractive, it doesn't work out, and they are left heartbroken and wondering why. Just a simple follow up: have you ever dated someone "not your type" but have it work out? (I am not suggesting it isn't possible...)
2006-10-06 05:54:52 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was me....I would not choose his attraction but compatiblity and characters..........attraction won't last long but compatiblity and characters does
2006-10-06 06:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married to someone who was not my type i usually would go for the more clean cut head on his shoulders sweet guy but my husband is not that way at all he doesnt care to much about his looks but knows how to look nice when it counts he has know idea what he wants to be and he wasnt so sweet but we have a wonderful relationship but i did pick looks over compatibility before i meet him and every time it was a heart ache
2006-10-06 13:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by inluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a human attraction does come first and compatibility next...no.but have seen a few couples who made it worked for them
2006-10-06 13:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by puff j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋