We are still friends and both men have now met. Should I tell my new man about our previous relationship?
2006-10-06 05:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by sjc123sjc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to still be friends with this other guy then don't tell your man. Cause if my girl came to me and told me that her and some guy were messin around before we got together, I wouldn't want her out with him alone anymore.
2006-10-06 05:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by collegeguy88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure why women think men want to hear about former lovers but we don't. we are all adults and we know that we are not virgins. my philosophy is unless asked, don't tell. if you do tell the next thing he will want to know is who is better in bed. if it is your friend with benefits, no matter what you say, he will know the truth and it will bother him. if it is him you are ok but the answers to the rest of the questions may bother him. there are enough problems in keeping relationships together these days without creating one. mums the word for today.
2006-10-06 13:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just so he wouldnt think you tried to hide anything from him. As far as the friend with benefits, as a woman dont do that cause you are just considered a quick fu ck and when woman do that men tend to cheat on their girls cause...... well theres nothing to it but to do it.
2006-10-06 12:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to know, it is none of his business, but yeah, definately cut off the benefits with the other person, it is considered cheating if you are seeing this new guy.
2006-10-06 12:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by celticaara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you; if the three of you get along well, he should take the news ok.
Who knows - you might wind up in bed with both of them!
2006-10-06 12:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let your new guy meet your f*ck buddy ?? How strange is that ? Hell no dont tell him. Once you do expect that you will not be able to spend time with this guy anymore.
2006-10-06 13:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope, they dont want to hear that. unless he asks, i would but i would strongly suggest not telling him. just say you were bestfriends or something, but that might bite you in the butt later. hell just be honest!
2006-10-06 13:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless he askes
2006-10-06 13:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by hunter6543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...... Whats in the past,,,, is in the past!!t
2006-10-06 12:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋