Never calling them or getting involve or showing concern during their crisis.
2006-10-06 05:43:17 · 10 answers · asked by Alijoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he left when the kids where 16,15&13.I'tbeen 3 years and I usually call him to remind him about birthdays ,graduation,and other moments on their lives .he ignores the calls and ignore the events all together.I all together stop the reminders since I think he should be responsible enough to be there for them.I know they have a deep deception in their hearts.Also he has never apologize for walking out on us with out even saying good bye.How can he show somuch love and dedication while he was living with us and just ignore them once he move with another woman.they use to adore their father and now they never mention his name.
2006-10-06 06:01:06 · update #1
he left when the kids where 16,15&13.I'ts been 3 years and I usually call him to remind him about birthdays ,graduations,and other moments on their lives .he ignores the calls and ignore the events all together.I all together stop the reminders since I think he should be responsible enough to be there for them.I know they have a deep deception in their hearts.Also he has never apologize for walking out on us with out even saying good bye.How can he show somuch love and dedication while he was living with us and just ignore them once he move with another woman.they use to adore their father and now they never mention his name.
2006-10-06 06:02:57 · update #2
By the age of the children I assume this man is pushing 40. Is the new woman a lot younger? If so, he doesn't want to be a parent of teens, he wants to be a young stud. They call it male menopause. Yes, he will regret. But, the important question is - Will your neglected children forgive and forget? I hope they have an adult relationship with him when they are adults and he finally tries to reconnect. Try to teach them to give him the room to visit them in their lives, but not to hurt them again. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-06 06:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will believe me! Since my divorce two years ago, my ex has seen our girls 5 times. In the beginning, it was just too hard for him...they reminded him of me and he couldn't handle that. Then he got too busy with new girlfriends and partying and living his own life. In the past few weeks, he has tried to reconnect with them. First he demanded his weekend visits (which he never took before) and my girls were terrified. They are only 6 and 4 so they hardly remembered him. Now he calls every night and they never want to talk to him on the phone....
I cried for so many months blaming myself for leaving him and putting my children in such a situation - but it had to be done. Now I get a little happy (cruel I know) when my kids call him by his name and not daddy. He has said many times that he was sorry for acting that way, but man, the damage is already done and you just can't undo that sort of trauma to children. My kids don't forget ANYTHING!
2006-10-06 13:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to do your part as mom and dad and let LIFE play itself out. Karma has a mysterious way of coming back around to bite someone in their @$$.
I'm quite positive your children are fully aware of the situation and there may come a time when their "father" may need them... and payback is a _itch!
2006-10-06 13:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say about men but i can say that my MOM abandon me at 3 yrs old and now 53 yrs later she wants to be this loving mom. Go figure.
2006-10-06 12:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just wrong. I have a daughter from my ex- and he has never forgotten his daughter even thought I moved 900 miles away. He comes every holiday for her.
2006-10-06 12:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a freakin dead beat piece of crap! Its men like that who make it impossible for men who actually care about their kids to be able to really get to spend quality time with their kids after a divorce. It pisses me off!
2006-10-06 12:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is too individual to be aswered correctly. Do a study, take a poll, it can go either way.
2006-10-06 12:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by drea6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope my ex-husband regrets it for the rest of his life.
2006-10-06 12:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do especially when they are old and all alone.
2006-10-06 13:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Questions/lb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will regret it when they grow old and have no one.
2006-10-06 12:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋