Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
2006-10-06 05:40:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is flirting. Very immaturely however.
2006-10-06 05:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well reilly,
If that's flirting, I don't want anyone flirting with me, I don't like being hit in the head. Not a romantic feeling ( for me anyway) Some like the hurtful love.
But some people are different, Maybe she is flirting, Hit her in the head see if she likes it , if so , then you'll know it's flirting.
2006-10-06 12:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is definitely flirting! Hit her back in a playful way - sneak up on her with a magic marker and draw a line on her arm - have fun with that.
2006-10-06 12:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. this girl sounds like me. only thing im not that aggressive
and i dun hit people's heads! hahaa.
but there was this time where i really fancied this guy in school.
and whenever he teases me jokingly, i would smack his stomach.
but that's just because i was taking advantage of the opportunity
to touch his abs. and God, does he have good abs or what! haha.
so yeah, in my opinion, she is most likely to be flirting with you.
hehh. all the best! :)
2006-10-06 12:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by sveltisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes maybe she hasent matured yet but usualy when a girl hits u in the head with a book and giggles after wards me she diggs u jajajajajaja thats so cute puppy love...... she does like u give her a taste of her own medeicen play her game but gentle poke her in the stomach play with her hair push her around
2006-10-06 12:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by sexycolombianchick13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is her way of flirting but you shouldn't hit her if you don't like her.
2006-10-06 12:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14. Yess, shes flirtting. Ask her out to lunch or dinner or something. Shes probably crying over you. And after diner or lunch, ask her to homecoming or winter formal. Shhe'll like that.
2006-10-06 12:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i would say that she is definatly flirting, in her own special way. I would just go along with it. She IS flirting, she's just not very good at it... : )
2006-10-06 12:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♥xoxo♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can, just don't hit her hard. She might be playing or flirting you'd have to ask her.
2006-10-06 12:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is flirty in a "safe" way. she wants to come out and sat she likes you but since you are friends, the rejection she is facing by doing that is great. If you like her, next time she does it wink at her, see how she reacts. Tell her you like her to touch you, but would like it better if she held your hand, not smack you with a book Good Luck!!!
*Sigh, young love....* :)
2006-10-06 12:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋