When I ask him whats wrong he will say nothing, and brush it off. But I know something is wrong... About a week ago I tried to break up with him, For him! Because I felt like thats what he wanted. He would not stop calling me and would not let me off the phone. He doesnt want to break up or take a break. I can tell that for sure. How do I get him to talk to me about whats wrong? How do I get him to open up to me? Ideas, suggestions? Please!!!!
2006-10-06 05:31:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he did something wrong now its bothering him...if he cant talk to u maybe he doesnt trust u enough...check his body language
2006-10-06 05:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, its annoying when girls keep asking "whats wrong?" Most of the time nothing is wrong, guys are usually thinking about sex, drinking, watching baseball, football, basketball, or even hockey, and playing all those games on XBox or PS2. My advice, stop asking questions, have some sex, drink with him, watch sports with him, and learn how to play video games. If you follow my advice, nothing will ever be wrong between you and your boyfriend again.
2006-10-06 12:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by jflavor82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do not like to talk about their issues like girls do. Girls are the venters, and guys are the listeners. All you have to do it sit back and let him come to you. One thing that I learned is that often guys want attention, so they will act a bit differently.i.e in your case sad. If you don't pay any mind to his sadness he'll talk about whats bothering him, and don't feel bad, it will help him out in the long run. Good luck
2006-10-06 12:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by drea6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you know something is bothering him and you would like to be there for him and help him work through it and that it upsets you that he wont talk to you, if he still says nothing is wrong you need to respect his need for privacy and just be there for him in the only way you can
2006-10-06 12:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex was acting like that, and when I tried to take space, he told me that he was just stressed out and that I shouldnt worry. Come to find out, he was liking another girl and he ended up breaking up w/me. I dont understand why he couldnt just say that when I gave him the perfect opportunity to do so.
2006-10-06 12:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am acting like your boyfriend right now. The problem with him is that he likes two. Sorry for breaking the news so suddenly, but in this period, he uses you as a "reserve", in case that other girl doesn't like him...
2006-10-06 12:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Charm girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't like to talk. Back off a little. Either he will come around and talk to you, or he will figure things out on his own and them be back to his normal self.
2006-10-06 12:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by bustylaroo99 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what if i were u i would just leave it alone becuz mayb hes goin through somethin hard in school or mayb he is just being weird my best advide 2 u is just to go out with him to diner and than take him to movie and after the moviie take hm out to desert and than ask him what was is wrong
2006-10-06 12:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him tell u tell him that u know something is wrong and tell him that u r his girl and he should be able to trust u
2006-10-06 12:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by mike2862669 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just wanting attention...or maybe he's got a problem he just doesn't wanna share. Give him time and soon he'll come to you.
2006-10-06 12:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋