2006-10-06 05:27:39 · 17 answers · asked by Justina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it is WAY hard. It all depends on you and the other person you are falling for. My fiance' and I fell in love right after he was legally divorced. It was a hard time for him and I was hurt really bad in past myself. We were both honest and patient with one another. We are more in love than ever now. Just be patient and make sure you give yourself enough time to heal. Put your feelings about your past behind you as soon as you can so you can start enjoying life again. Life is too short to miss out on the good things. Don't let your past hold you back. If the other person loves you, as long as you are upfront and honest, I think it will all work out. Best wishes to you.
2006-10-06 05:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it's hard at first to let anyone run away with your heart once you've had it broken, but that's not the only time it'll happen in your lifetime. You just have to know how to deal with your inner self, and love you no matter what anyone does to TRY to hurt you. Once you find another significant other, just take things real slow, feel the person out, and don't allow yourself to get too attached. It's one way to protect your heart for a little while, then, if they prove themselves to be worthy of your love, give in a little at a time. You have to give people the benefit of a doubt in order to find happiness in a relationship. If you're leary of everyone, you'll be able to trust noone and will become a very insecure person. It's nice to love and be loved, be grateful that you've been able to experience this...a lot of people will never know what it's like.
2006-10-06 12:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, but really at some point you will have to put that in the past. The key to being emotionally attached is having trust in the person. You can't give trust if you are always worried about the things in the past happening again. Who knows they might but if you don't take a chance you could be pushing something good away.
2006-10-06 12:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by hoddin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes , Yes , Yes,I've been hurt too. I ask on here a couple of days ago, "How do you learn to trust again?".
It's very hard, I think you, just like myself just need someone who will show us that there are some good honest men still out there who can be trusted.
2006-10-06 12:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it takes time. dont get emotionally attached until u know that person like u know your best friend. keep that wall up and keep your eyes open. try not to take it out on the next person you date, just stay aware. if uve been hurt before, u know the signs
2006-10-06 12:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by yankeesarethechamps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but sometimes we have to burn to lean,even if our heart gets broken,but then you have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and try putting your life back together let go of the past and live the future because if you don't the one person who was there for you trying to help you through this difficult time you might loss forever,and when you realize it will be to late,to late shall be your cry.
2006-10-06 12:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes. Don't let it be the end for promising relationships for you. Yo just have to know when it is the right time to let people in. Don't rush to fast, but don't put a nice guy on the back burner. You just might lose a really good guy.
2006-10-06 12:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but you have to get back up on that horse and brush that chip off your shoulder baby girl, and realize you may never love if you don't live. Live for the moment and let the future come to you not the other way around.
2006-10-06 12:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by untouchablesexy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur still hurt from the pass then ur not ready to move to a next relationship..everyone needs a fear chance..u might loose out on true love..those who hurt u never loved u in the first place
2006-10-06 12:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is one of the hardest things thats why you have to stay strong as long as possible and try not to get attached until your absolutly positive that he can be trusted.... try testing him maybe he feels the same way you never know....
2006-10-06 12:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by sexycolombianchick13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋