I was talking to my friend Paul who told me my blind date is 6.5 lbs overweight, well about that, could be only 4 lbs...How do I tell this glutton that I can't go out with her now ? I want to be nice about it, but there is no way in heck I can be seen with her in public. I'm thinking about telling her that I have diarrhea or a bad cold., but I don't like to lie, so you can see my problem..If I sent her a pizza as sort of a peace offering, I think she will be ok with everything. I don't mind fat people, I even have a friend that is 10 lbs. overweight, so as you can see, I"m very understanding. I just wish women would keep their bodies in shape when they want to date a FINE and HOT guy like me, it's not fair to wast my time..Anyone have any ideas ?
2006-10-06 05:24:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
10lbs is NOT overweight.
I hope your happy with your right hand, because with that attitude, that will be the ONLY dating you will be getting soon.
2006-10-06 05:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously not all that if you can't see someone for who they are and not their weight. To obsess over 6 lbs is rediculous and you should be ashamed that this is even an issue. She could be wonderful and her weight may be just perfect for her. Besides the fact that muscle is heavier than fat so who's to say she's not athletic. Everyone is built different and unique. If you keep this attitude you're going to loose out on a lot of great oppertunities and you'll end up a very lonely man.
2006-10-06 05:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Bride2B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I will take the bait and give you the response you were looking for. Here's some attention for you!
You are a pig. If any woman changes anything about her in order to date you, there is something wrong with her. You have inspired me to gain 5 pounds to keep you away.
One last question...if women are lining up to go out with you, why are you going on a blind date? Surely a stud like you wouldn't need someone else to set him up.
2006-10-06 05:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been going out with an exceptionally superb, variety, stunning guy for a year and you haven't any longer cared approximately what the heck he feels like and then after a chum, who would in basic terms besides be über-jelous or would not have the comparable flavor in ppl as you, tells you that he's not very heat, you desire to offload him?! how many different adult men are you going to locate it somewhat is so giving and are waiting to alter their existence for a blind lady? no longer many. If I have been you, i could save him and if there could be a wreck-up contained sooner or later, it truly is going to come organic from the two aspects!
2016-10-02 00:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me you are joking. I can't believe anyone would be so cruel and I am even more jaded about the world we live now because of you. If this is true, you have an obligation to go out with her, you could end up friends if you don't mind overweight people. If you don't want her just don't call her.
2006-10-06 05:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by aouija 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go, because you can't win.
If you LOVE her personality, but you're embarrassed
to be with her in public... then you'll have probs. Can't really ask her to lose weight - that'll mess with YOU later.
(She'll always be up and down, and you won't like that).
The only girls here complaining GOT WEIGHT ISSUES,
or feel they do! Hot women who work-out HATE THE IDEA OF BEING A PORKER. Get a lean girl who
constantly works out. Don't go. Be your own man.
2006-10-06 05:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by kevc21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatthefuck ever!! you are NOT gods gift to women...and you are going to miss out on that love of your life women, the one that would do anything to you for you and with you bc of that attitude., But if thats how you want to live your life then you will deserve it...oh and girls who meet guys like you...it doesn't matter how hot you think u r, ur ugly as hell once that attitude comes out..theres no hiding it...so i would consider u lucky to have a chance at this beautiful girl..but like i said before what the *uck ever!
2006-10-06 05:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that this women deserves a lot better then you can offer her. I think you should tell her your sick, because she can do a lot better then you. You think a lot of your self, how do you know that if she saw you she would like someone like you. If you were so "hot" you would not need to go on a blind date.
2006-10-06 05:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. You don't want to lie to her, but you don't want to go out with her either. Talk to her then tell her that you don't see her as a girlfriend. Tell her you just see her as a friend. So you don't have to lie or go out with her and you won't hurt her feelings. Well not that much.
2006-10-06 05:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this ? seems to come from a very shallow person,does it really mater if she is overweight,she is still a human being .It sounds like you expect more from a blind date than just good conversation .
If my boys were like you I would feel I did not oarent veru well
2006-10-06 05:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by cocheeise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very shallow. Only 6.5 lbs overweight. Give me a break.
2006-10-06 05:29:40 · answer #11 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋