I haven't ever been in one, do you think that you can meet a parther there or you just end up making friends?, is pretty obvious everyone there is looking, that puts me nervous to be honest, I'm sure I am not the only one, I also know meeting people in certain places is not easy, I would like to know if that's a good way and offers chances to meet someone (it doesn't have the excitment of meeting someone by coincidence and together make the magic happen, is my oppinion), what's yours?, friends experience?
2006-10-06 05:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sir, if you really want to meet someone nice and build a lifelong relationship that goes on through the marriage vows, go to church. There are many women there who want to find a nice guy who will love them the rest of their lives. Most would gladly give a nice guy an opportunity to know them if they get the chance. By the way, you might want to read in the Bible the "Love Chapter" found in I Corinthians 13 where true love that lasts forever is defined.
If you only want heartache and disappointment, then go ahead to the bars, etc. You will find that most of the women there aren't the lifelong marriage types and they will, sooner or later, burn you bad.
2006-10-06 05:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been clubbing since the early 90's as a clubber and a DJ and i can tell you this.
It varies. I've seen people meet in clubs looking for that special someone and it happen but it's as rare as a bleeding moon. There's a reason why they're called a meet market...or in some cases a meat market. The average lifespan of a relationship with a girl i met in a club was one night to two months. I once had one last 4 months.
All my long term relationships happened via meeting girls in everday settings.
You will get to know people via clubbing so it can build your circle of friends and increase your chances to meet someone via that circle. Just make sure that when you meet that someone you let them know what it is you're looking for and be sincere.
2006-10-06 12:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can meet the right person just about anywhere. It is all by chance. You may get out of your car and meet the woman of your dreams that is on her way to the hardware store that is next to the club. I think it would be fun and if the right one for you is in the club then if you wanna meet her you better go in there and get her. Give it a shot and let us know what happens. Good luck.
2006-10-06 12:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
singles clubs are great to meet people and make friends,if a person goes to a singles meeting just to get laid you will know that type,For women who are tired of the club scene because of the later,singles clubs would be great ,I met my wife at a singles dance 16 years ago
2006-10-06 12:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by cocheeise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waste of time, unless you are so busy that you haven't the time to meet people (in which case, take a break). It will depress you to see the people you are lumping yourself in the same category as.
2006-10-06 12:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Raff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a meat market. I liked using online dating, you can review the profiles first.
2006-10-06 12:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by supercat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know, you might even get laid.
2006-10-06 12:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋