I had a really cute guy i was talkin' 2 in school & we went out twice but come to find out he never wanted a relationship but wanted 2 f*ck me. He told my frins this & they told me. Obviously we not talkin' like that anymore but it only lasted 3 weeks. So for all the cute papi-chicos out there why do they do girls like this?
2006-10-06 04:58:17 · 13 answers · asked by waves 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O yea jus so u kno I'm still a virgin 2 & i told him that i wasn't planning on doin' that & he thought that I was jus playin'. And the friends that I'm talking about are mine.
2006-10-06 05:02:43 · update #1
because their buddies are saying they did it and they aren't a man because they haven't done it yet. all the lies.
2006-10-06 05:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't either because you are still in "school" and you are just learning how things work. You should be happy with him because at least he was up front and honest about what he wanted. There is nothing wrong with a purely sexual relationship so long as both people are honest and up front about what they want and where it is going.
Would you rather he lied to you and screwed you then left you?
Maybe it is your fault too, did you ever think that maybe you just aren't relationship material?
Maybe you are fat or ugly or emotionally unstable or bitchy?
If that is the case just take what you can get because until you change your looks or your personality it won't get any better.
2006-10-06 05:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go looking for guys in the places where sex isn't a topic. There are guys out there are that are looking for a real relationship and if there is sex then it is just a plus. But if your hot and sexy then that is the norm of approaches that your going to get. You just have to be picky on who you pick
2006-10-06 05:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you acting and dressing???
we all like attention, but are you getting it from the wrong kind of guy..........
If you are a flirt or dressing the part, you send the wrong message to the guys....
Some guys are just not worth gettin' to know.... don't put up with sexual inuendos from dudes and separate yourself from guys who are all about themselves..... this is male ego and it is all about sex to them... and their good looks.... conceited!!!!!!!!
don't take it too personally, cause if it wasn't you they were after, it would be someone else......
Try the guys that are not Mr. Dude, you might be surprised....
2006-10-06 05:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of men, boys, do not mature as quickly as girls do and being immature, they see the value in sex and not in relationships. They are looking for bragging rights alone. As long as you stay smart and stay strong, you will be safe from those silly boys. Luckily for you cuz alot of women dont see this happening until after they have laid down with them. Be thankful you are smart enough to see it!
2006-10-06 05:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I do know this...It all has to do with the people you hang out with. If all the guy you know are like the ones youdescribed thats what your going to end up with. If you hang out with different guys who don't have a bad rep. then you might find someone you like!
2006-10-06 05:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look not all guys are like that ok don't give guys a bad name. i use to do that but i found the man of my dreams. and Guss what i was my best friend. that's not the point the point is you need to find someone who is going to be there for you honey don't give up there out there. there's someone out there for everyone. keep your head up and believe in your self.i did.
2006-10-06 05:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant I find a cutie that wants to f*ck and not have a relationship. Hmm
2006-10-06 05:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone cares and adores you well they will show you that not getting any doesnt matter..im single have been for some time ...so me not getting any aint gonna hurt, it is nice having that closeness with someone you dearly care about,but its got to be mutual and why rush if you care about someone and want to be with them and share a life together well you have a lifetime,doesnt all gotta happen today or to soon if he cares he will be for you how you need him to be...
2006-10-06 05:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is all boys like me want to do
2006-10-06 05:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by LiL D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋