I was talking with this guy and he was very nice perfect relationship and after few wks I was in total control asking him to change and suggesting every third day that we should break up, at the same time saying wonderful things about him and our relationship. Yesterday he told me that he don’t like this attitude and we should stop. I am wondering is he going to call me ????
2006-10-06 04:51:29 · 22 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think it is right of you to "be in total control" and asking him to change. If you were suggesting every third day that you break up then why would you want him to call you, maybe he finally decided that you were right.
2006-10-06 04:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Do you blame him? No one has the right to control anyone in this life. Work on yourself and try to evaluate your reasons for the need of control. I bet you are a real sweet girl, just confused about how to treat a man. There should never be control on either side, harmony works. If any phone call is made, it should be from you to him. If you can change your ways, prove it to him, if the relationship is important to him I'm sure you will get a second chance. Show him the new you!
2006-10-06 11:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are going to get a call back. Why would you keep suggesting that he change and break up if it was a very nice perfect relationship? I really hope you find what you are looking for because obviously it wasn't with this person. Good Luck!
2006-10-06 11:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked the guy and you were having a perfect relationship why were you asking him to change and break up? Anyways give him some time and space and if he doesn't call within a week or so that means that things are over.
2006-10-06 11:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Devilish Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did describe that you were asking him to change and then suggesting that you break up, every third day. If it were me, I would have dumped you a lot sooner. Your way of treating a relationship is not a healthy way to treat a relationship. I wouldn't hold my breath in his calling you.
2006-10-06 11:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really think that is a healthy relationship. If he is perfect than you shouldnt ask him to change at all. It sounds like you should find someone else or stop taking control and like him for the way he is.
2006-10-06 11:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him and apologize. Tell tell him how wonderful you think he really is, and that you didn't mean to come off like that. Us as women always seem to want things or way or no way, but compromising is what make relationships work. so call him up and be nice.
2006-10-06 11:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for his own sanity I hope. With this controlling person he is walking across razor wire, across a deep valley, juggling handgrenades with the pins out, and with crocs waiting at the bottom. Not good!
2006-10-06 11:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he'll call you alright...HE'LL CALL YOU A PSYCOPATH WHENEVER YOUR NAME IS MENTIONED!!!! Since you seem to know exactly what you are doing, why are you doing it?? what makes you think its ok to treat someone like this and then expect them to want to be with you any length of time??? You need to probably get some professional help before somebody hurts you physically....for real!!
2006-10-06 12:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could, but if YOU don't change it'll probably be a cycle of getting together and breaking up.
2006-10-06 11:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋