i broke up with my boyfriend and my best friend went out with him one day later and she new i still had feelings for him, what should i do cuz i really like him still.
2006-10-06 04:51:00 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't talk to either one of them again. The fact that this guy would go out your close friend right after you break up with him means that he's either trying to get back at you, and is using your friend or he doesn't care about you, because he knows that this would hurt you. He's trying to hurt you. And the fact that your friend would go out with your ex at all, let alone a day after you broke up means she has low self esteem and this makes her feel better about herself (she gets off knowing that your boyfriend wants her instead of you which is really shallow and repulsive urge to let guide you through life), was always jealous of you and your boyfriend and doesn't have any respect for your friendship. She is not your friend. You don't deserve to be treated like this. At the very least she should have talked to you about it first.
You don't want to be involved with these kinds of people. They will only hurt you more if you keep interacting with them. Try to move on now before this turns into the mother of all Jerry Springer dramas.
2006-10-06 05:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by NutterButter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a look at your best friend. They had obviously discussed this relationship while you were still dating the guy. She must have shown him some interest. A real friend would not date a guy that you just broke up with. That is just wrong, especially if she knows you still like him.
2006-10-06 11:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by bmkj2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why you broke up with him, but if she knew you still had feelings for him, I would forget both of them and get busy with other people. There is not alot you can do, I would be nice to both of them but I would be unavalable to do anything with her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.YOU probably will never trust her again and that's what friendship is about but I would feel hurt at him too. Sounds like she either already liked him and he's trying to hurt you because you hurt him, if that's the case he'll be back if your nice to him and spend time on yourself looking better and decide how you feel. Time heals alot of wounds.
2006-10-06 12:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. There isn't anything you can really do except either compromise or don't speak to either of them.
It was pretty messed up of your "friend" to do, doesn't seem like much of a friend to me, but if you are a teenager and this is one of those teeny bopper relationships then you don't even know what real love is or what real feelings in a relationship are yet so I wouldn't worry about it.
If its not your other option would be to compromise. Have a threesome with your friend and your ex. Then talk about the three of you dating each other.
2006-10-06 11:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl how can you still call her your friend when she new you still like your x and she went out with him that's just not right i say you stop talking to the "friend" of yours and move on from that one guy...!!!
2006-10-06 11:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by maria a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were going together before yall broke up you just didnt know it. They didnt let you know and your friends are not your friend you need to check that out.
2006-10-06 11:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill her. Well not kill however, that isn't a friend at all. That is a dirty girl who only cares about herself and not you. So, I would ignore them both and not give them the time of day. You deserve better than what they are giving you.
2006-10-06 11:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that is part of the game....YOU broke up with him, she saw that he was a good man (that you let go) and she took him....Oh well...what are you going to do? Nothing....
2006-10-06 11:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new best friend, because she's definitely not one.
2006-10-06 11:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will beat his a $ $ and hers to because he knew u was dating him to me that is not a friend to stab u in the back like that
leave her alone
2006-10-06 12:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋