...pushing something too hard?
I mean - where is difference betweeen care about someone and not giving them enough space?
Is that different from person to person?
2006-10-06 04:00:11 · 17 answers · asked by no one 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is different for everyone; what is caring persistence to one is nagging to another. All you can do is what you feel is right.
The question is sort of vague, though -- I might be able to give a more helpful answer if I knew more specifics.
2006-10-06 04:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it differs from person to person. Some people like more space than others. You can tell if you are pushing too hard when the other person starts to back off. Caring for a person doesnt mean that you have to be with them at all times. good luck, take care
2006-10-06 11:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not giving someone enough space that means there is a void in your life that is compensated for by this person. You have to find who you are and fill that space with your own self worth. It's not about the person your with it's about YOU. If you really care about someone then you want their happiness. If you put your happiness before theirs then it's not about the couple it's about YOU. How can you be in a relationship where you just take?
IF YOU WANT THE UNIVERSE YOU'VE GOT TO HAVE SPACE!
2006-10-06 11:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you care about someone you will give them their space. Its all good to care about someone, but when your constantly in their face it can get annoying. Yes it is different from person to person. Some people love the attention, but other want their only breathing space. And if you really do care you will appreciate that.
2006-10-06 12:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ribeana2Sweet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is different from person to person but mostly it's different from situation to situation. When you love some one, its hard to let go. Even if you know deep down that you should be giving this person space, if you give them that space, it feels like you're giving up in a way and letting go. But sometimes, you do have to let go. Remember, if you love someone and let them go, if they come back, then you know its for real.
2006-10-06 11:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the subject your pushing goes from a loving and caring nudge to the person viewing it as a shove. It's allways good to help people. example..you can ride a bike for someone to get around, or you can teach them to ride it for themselves. Sometimes the ultimate help is teaching someone to help themselves.
2006-10-06 11:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by sedition_4_2_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be you and live how you need to...everyone is different...you are whatever you feel inside and trust that because thats the only true thing you can count on "your everything"....and if you find someone that loves and adores you,someone you can trust will be for you like you are them..maybe more...it sux when you tell someone you love them and they say i love you more and it ends up you standing there alone wondering what the **** ...well why even say it if your not going to honour it...words need actions and if you communicate and listen to what each other need .
2006-10-06 11:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
now days its hard it is person to person let him know that you care and that you love him dearly that's about all you can do good luck to the both of you
2006-10-06 11:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in pushing , that's not caring that's controlling
2006-10-06 11:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find I get cranky and aggressive if someone is trying to push me into something I dont want to do - maybe they'll react the same way - its like my attitude is - if i want to do something Ill do it - if you want me to do something - as me outright - dont try and push me into it. xx
2006-10-06 11:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋