If you love your bf how do you know if he feels the same way for you? I mean he tells me he does...but im just not too sure bc he used to be a player but that was way be4 me i just dk if i should trust him....what should i do?
2006-10-06 03:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it time. True love prevails. If he truly loved you, the signs will come out eventually. Men do change, so his player ways may be gone, but you may also want to keep your eyes out for him. As I've gotten older, I've kept dating to dating. I don't get into relationships until the love has already been found. If you date a person before you give them a title, it allows you the time to know who they really are and more than likely you won't have to ask questions like that. But, hold on, your answer will come to you.
2006-10-06 03:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Charlies_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell honey Has he done anything to make u distrust him in your relationship?? If not then wait and see. Player or not people change. Dont go through all the drama of testing him (ie PI's, video setting him up) I have seen all this stuff back fire on a couple of good friends. If he is the love that you want him to be and and you are his love then it will work out.
2006-10-06 11:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by GRISSIOM PURE GENIUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking so deep into this! Who cares what he used to be like. If he tells you he loves you, and you love him, than just enjoy it. If he hasn't done anything to you to cause distrust, then yes, you should trust him. People grow up. Don't hold his past against him! Love him, enjoy the time that you have with him, and believe in him. Insecurtiy is a turn off for men and women. Be confident in yourself!!! Maybe you are the one he's been waiting for. If you aren't, you need to act like you are!! You ARE that good!
2006-10-06 11:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a trust issue, so I am very skeptical about those kinds of issues/people. Do you love your boyfriend so much that you would consider spending the rest of your life with him? Does he have to tell you that he loves you, or can you see it in his eyes? If you can see it in his eyes, then he must love you. But be careful, dont trust so easily that you'll get hurt, dont be naive about things that may be right infront of you. Talk to him about how you feel, you may feel better.
2006-10-06 11:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Srah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a player always a player just be cautious with him
2006-10-06 10:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can know if he love the way you do him by watch the way he behaviors to you and how he treat issues concerning you.
2006-10-06 11:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust your instincts before you trust anyone else. My two cents.
2006-10-06 10:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I hate to say this, but if you have to ask my bet is he doesn't. That sort of thing is generally very clear!
2006-10-06 10:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time........if he rushes anything then he obviously has other agendas to tend to. Your worth the wait.
2006-10-06 10:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that he doesn't that mean he just don't love u,when u love some one u know when he/her loves u,u just feel in ur heart......
2006-10-06 11:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋