2006-10-06 03:48:38 · 19 answers · asked by kmbrlyrsh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, it should not be formal. You may invite as many as 50 if you like but please don't wear a white dress & veil. It's in very poor taste for a 3rd. wedding. You may wear a long dress but in a color & don't have it too fancy.(I knew one lady who wore a lovely floral print chiffon dress & a picture hat & carried a sm bouquet of garden flowers.Her smile was radiant & she was beautiful. Congratulations, I hope you live happily ever after.
2006-10-06 04:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by mazell41 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that it relly all depends on what you want, but for a third marriage, in my opinion i don't think it is very necessary to have a fancy formal wedding. It shouldn't matter as long as your loved ones are there. If it were me i would just have close immediate family and throw a party after, just make it fun and alot less work..
2006-10-06 04:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding! I imagine you'd want to wear white too. Go to a local Justice of the Peace, have a few friends on hand, and marry your new beloved. Wear a conservative outfit, but not all white.
Only the first wedding should be in white, provided the bride lives up to that honor in chastity.
2006-10-06 06:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Guitarpicker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you did the previous 2 time was wrong. So don't repeat ANYthing. If you had formal weddings, then don't. If you had casual weddings, then do the opposite.
2006-10-06 03:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Manny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LORD NO...
I think the first weddings shouldn't be formal. It would save soooooooooooo much money and help the new couple out financially if they simply had a little reception and skipped all the hoopla and cost.
2006-10-06 03:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends... if your fiance wants a big wedding and you enjoy it and want it to be exciting, then sure, have a big, formal wedding... but i would say no, rather just keep is small, with only family and a few close friends, or no one at all, just the two of you
2006-10-06 03:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by lady_archfiend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your new spouse wants. If he has never been married before he might want a large ceremony. I know that my brother married a woman who was once divorced and they had a small ceremony, but my brother wanted a large ceremony with his friends and family (which my parents were more than happy to pay for). And he was upset when they weren't married in a relgious manner. But you really should ask everyone involved. If your new spouse hasn't been married before, he may romanticize the process. If you are paying for it, then let your budget dictate it. if your parents are paying for it, then you should all sit down and discuss it.
2006-10-06 04:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Chit P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever you want, big or small, since you and you hubby (should be) are the ones footing the whole bill.
Do NOT accept or expect gifts. Instead, and in lieu of gifts, ask for donations to a favourite charity.
3rd time around - it's time to give back.
2006-10-06 04:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by firehorsetwo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you the groom or bride? If you are a new bride, by all means make it formal. If you are the groom, make it small/informal. If both of you are married 2-3 times, do make it as small and informal as possible.
2006-10-07 06:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if it's your 3rd marriage I would do it quietly at the court house. Maybe it will work out this time. Most people would think here she goes again.
2006-10-06 04:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋