we split up a couple of years ago but still stayed friends. reason we split was like i said before i'm afraid of commitment. i've always loved him, he says he feels the same but he's in a relationship with someone else and he told me he loves her but he's not in love with her!! what do i do??
2006-10-06 03:47:35 · 20 answers · asked by X.hel.X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to work things out again and see if there is a chance for you guys to make things work out and if he is in a relationship and is not in love with the girl then he simple doesnt love her or he is lying to you telling you i dont love her i love you... so honey be careful ive heard it all b4 because if he wasnt in love with her then why would he stay with her make absoutley no sense come on gurl think b4 u do ne thin even though he is your first love juss be careful
2006-10-06 03:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you respect him for trying with you. I am in the same predicament and I saw mine last night but when I looked at him in the eyes he put his head down and started crying. Prob. because I walked in with a friend, who he is afraid of. Any way, ask him what he would do if you guys would get back together. Tell him that it has been a few years and you both might of changed a little in a good way. Go for it... Communication is the key to this one. Good Luck
2006-10-06 03:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u still have a chance because he s not in love with her
let me tell u something about my old situation
i was deeply with my x x gf then i met my x
while with my x i used to always think about my x x
it kinda mess me up cuz i didnt give my complete self to my x because i was holding back
a year into the relationship i bump into my x x
i sat down and talk to her i was really happy to see her and talk to her, i wanted to get bac k with her so badly but in my head i needed to think things thru
i had a great gf at the present time is it worth it for me to leave her and go back to my x x with the possibility of breaking up again
so i decided to not take the chance and i stood with my x and it close the books on my x x from then on
now the point of this story is yes u do have a chance with him
but u need to prove to him that this time will work and it will be well worth that what my x x didnt prove to me that why i didnt go back to her
just keep in contact with him
chi chat here and there nothing serious
hang out with him
do not ever talk about relationship
believe me the more and more u hang out with him
the relationship will develop on its own
good luck and if u need any more advice
email me
peterfl999@yahoo.com
2006-10-06 04:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can force his hand by showing interest in dating. This will coerse him into making a move to get you back or staying with his current girl. I does'nt sound like he's going to move if he knows you still care about him. As a result he feels like your waiting. So he'll just wait till his current relationship desolves then he'll go to you. I say don't be a can on the shelf. Move on and I bet he follows.
2006-10-06 03:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear this is tough. if you think hes the love of your life and hes giving the impression he wants to try again then what are you waiting for. maybe the new girl was a re bound thing to try and get over you. tell him how you feel and at least you will know. good luck xx
2006-10-06 03:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you truly feel. Do you believe that he is "the one"? ask yourself that question. If he is, you need to get over the fear of commitment and make yourself happy. If the both of you feel the way you say that you do, you'll get the love of your life back.
2006-10-06 03:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Srah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unless he breaks things off with his current girlfriend, he shouldn't be talking like this to you because he was your ex, it's not fair on his new girlfriend...just wait and see what happens but don't do anything to influence his descision on splitting up with her. I'm sorry but you had your chance.
2006-10-06 03:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love soemthing and set it free and it comes back it's ment to be... however people change over time and the person you once loved will be someone differnt just like you will be someone differnt.
Juleette-
2006-10-06 03:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves her but he's not IN love with her. Sorry but what kind of sh+te comment is that? Forget him mate, sounds like the kind of guy whos trying to get the best of both worlds, and im sure u know what i mean.......
2006-10-06 03:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he would not be in a relationship. He sounds like a weasel. Run as fast as you can and don't look back.
2006-10-06 03:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋