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If you make it clear in the beginnning then yeah but to be honest people suddlenly begin to get feelings. At first it is easy but if you want to keep it as just sex don't let that relationship last too long move on to the next one.

2006-10-06 03:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by oneluv804 2 · 0 2

If you are sleeping with someone then they are not your "friend", you can be friend-ly but not true friends. Sex involves physical intimacy that will change any relationship it is a part of... that being said not every sexual relationship is a committed or monogamous one. There are times that you want the physical intimacy and pleasure that sex provides without the emotional requirements of a full relationship. As long as there is FULL disclosure, meaning no "I'm not sure where this is going..." (you know full well it is going nowhere but where it is) and both people are in agreement and consenting to the rules of the relationship then generally both women & men can be ok with that. I find trouble comes when one of the individuals is not being fully truthful with the other and then acts surprised when assuptions & expectations are made...

2006-10-06 03:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo477 2 · 0 1

I think that women go into this type of relationship hoping for more. I am not saying every woman, but most do not have the ability to seperate sex from love. We equate them as the same. Often when women sleep around, it is because they are subconsiensly searching for attention and love. They may not even realize it. So although they say over and over that it is okay with them, it usually causes them to cry at night or to harden and become un-feeling. It is a nice question though.

2006-10-06 03:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 2 0

Yes. I have been for the past 10 months. When I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship and so had he. Neither of us were ready for a relationship, but we became really close friends. We did everything together and we talked about everything with eachother. After a couple of months of spending all of this time together, we became intimate. It was something that I enjoyed at the moment, but after time, I began thinking, "if he's doing this with me, then he's doing it with someone else." He shot me all the excuses men give, claiming that we would be together one day, but he wasn't ready at the moment and too just wait for him. BULLSHIT!! If a man really wants to be with you, he wouldn't make you wait. That turned me off. That was my first time ever engaging in sex outside of a committed relationship and was also my last time. I realized that I was too classy to be sitting around pretending to be someone's woman when I really wasn't. Besides, I'm an only child, I don't share!!! Plus, the "friends with benefits" thing doesn't work. In the end, 9 out of 10 times the friendship will never be what it was to begin with.

2006-10-06 03:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Charlies_Angel 1 · 0 1

I think it depends on how old they are. If thier ready to settle down then no. That can be at any age though. I thought I was ready when I was 19. I am 28 now and getting married in April. Just remember that most girls are emotional and want more than just friends with benefits. They want romance and a companion...Just be upfront and tell them what you are looking for right away. They will let you know what they want. Good luck.

2006-10-06 03:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 0 1

Yes I think some do. I am currently in a one now with one of my best friends actually. Its nothing more than that and we both understand it. I think some women can't handle it and that's why they don't because of the emotional bond some form when sleeping with some one. They end up wanting more and what not. But I certainly do still believe in it yes, but I think it takes a certain kind of person to be able to.

2006-10-06 03:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by MLP 2 · 0 1

Yes. they are some women who prefer in no string attach relationship just because they dont want any commitments, or they are just afraid of the reality of LOVE... or simply they just want to have some fun...Immature fun... a full of lust and immaturity...But they are some women who prefer such act because of what they had experience...a hurtful experience of their past relationship... because commiting to someone doesnt mean true love, happiness it is a matter of choice... a choice of being happy, a choice of growing up ....a choice of maturity.... hurts and painful experiences are part of life...
NO string relationships+lust=IMMATURITY

2006-10-06 03:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-15 21:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Depends on the woman. If she is at a point in her life where she wants to settle down and get serious, then NO. but if she's young looking to have a good time, then maybe. I personally never have been into it though.

2006-10-06 03:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some women do. When they're single and need a guy but don't want a relationship. It's like finding a needle in a haystack, but there are some out there.

2006-10-06 03:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by susanradford18 4 · 0 0

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