How would a guy feel if a girl he is dating asked him to stay over and sleep in the bed without and sex involved? Like a slumber party, to be close to one another and *GASP* cuddle with a beautiful woman and be held?
Juleette-
2006-10-06 03:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should be ok with that I would think. Have you guys ever been intimate before?
If you have then this shouldn't be a huge deal, if you havn't then just make it clear to him before hand that there is no sex involved here just sleeping.
He might think that was strange but he shouldn't be upset about it.
2006-10-06 03:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i depends on what type of man your dealing with some men would understand what your asking for some would do it thinking that's your way of saying lets have sex and the rest will go because they know you don't want to have sex but hoping that you will give in and try to presher you.first you need to find out who your dealing with just to be on the safe.you feel me?
2006-10-06 03:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by equality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a big time commitment that should only happen with a mutual consent, so I guess if one party wasn't ready it would not be a big deal.
2006-10-06 03:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by ballmonkeyhockey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys would be o.k with this ONLY if you tell them BEFORE they gfet in the bed that there will be NONE of that going on tonight! otherwise, we would just naturally try to do sonmething if we don't then that's not a normal guy.
2006-10-06 03:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by MiKeNeSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wonderful and i recommend it highly although you need to realize that you will have a very real "effect" on him even if you aren't doing anything. If you don't mind waking up to feel that then go for it, but don't be teasing him either (no butt wiggles lol). good luck
2006-10-06 03:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. some would be OK with it and respect you and some would sleep over and still expect some.talk to him before hand and make sure it is clear what you want will be respected.
2006-10-06 03:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by me2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really interested in you he should except the fact that you are not ready for sex...if he can not respect that then you need to give him the boot
2006-10-06 03:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by oneluv804 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well id say that if he is an asshole and the only thing he cares about is sex then he would get mad but play it off but if he cares about you he wouldnt mind and would just be happy to be able to spend time with you and be with you and i hope its the second one
2006-10-06 03:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of this happening
Some guys do this on a first date.
Then brag to their friends that they slept with her.
2006-10-06 03:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great!
2006-10-06 03:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋