There is this girl i like. I am friends with her and have been for about 1/2 a year. I dont know what to do. she doesn't know and im afraid that if i ask her out, she'll think i was just using our friendship to get to her. I don't know what to do.
2006-10-06 03:26:25 · 17 answers · asked by Hippy of 21st Century - Jargouss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey when u feel comfident make a move. Just make sure the time is right, if it was meant to be, she wont think you using your friendship to get to her.
2006-10-06 03:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to bring it up gradually just don't pile it on. Start with the little things. Like me and this guy. I asked him to be in my cheerleading squad. And thats where we got started with. We've exchanged numbers and we giving each other sneaky glances. He's got a gf but we aren't doing anything wrong. When you look at her hold her stare for a few seconds then smile at her sweetly. Ask her if she's interested in anyone. Most people need friendship to build their relationship on anyway. Don't flirt with any girls and don't talk about other girls because if she likes you then you'll just be pushing her away from you. After awhile you'll get there. Good luck huni, i hope you get her. Hope yours turns out better than what mine is at the moment lol xxx charl xxx
2006-10-06 10:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her like you ask her to do something (make sure you can talk and talk about some stranger that you just met and how captivating, pretty and excited you are to go on this date) make sure you say things like "how you want it to be original and the best date of her life" then at the end of your day with the "non fake girl you like" say you have to go on your date date and act nervous/excited this will make her bothered and reconsider you as something different than a friend!!
2006-10-06 10:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her you have to go for it, she wont think you were using your friendship to get to her. But if you dont ask her then nothing will ever happen so take the chance. Good luck
2006-10-06 10:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out simple. friendship or no friendship. ask her out. that way ur mind will be clear that u have tried your own, pls don't be too anxious about telling her, u might give a wrong impression.
2006-10-06 10:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do be honest. Tell her what you wrote here and if your friendship is as close as you think, then she will surely understand. The real question is, what if she says no and how do you handle that?
2006-10-06 10:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you doubt yourself too much, ask her out! i bet ya she won't think anything like what your saying she will. Give it a go, take a punt,do you really want to take a risk by not asking her out?, you might lose her to someone else. I wish you the best of luck!! =)
2006-10-06 10:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm, all i can say is tell her how u feel just talk to her about it maybe it would change tha friendship you have to a loveing friendship and relationship. hope that helps.
2006-10-06 10:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by SiSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going through the same thing w/ my best guy friend Phillip.so i guess i can give you advice that others have been giving me.just go with your gut...i mean,,you wont know unless you go a be straight up with her..*and cliches as it sounds* you really dont wanna spend the rest of your life wondering *what if*???
2006-10-06 10:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out, you guys are friends and friends can lead into lovers. Don't worry about what she thinks just do what you think you want to do.
2006-10-06 10:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lost In Love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋