I was just raped a year ago and everyone knows who I am and what happened. Well everyone in my city. The guy that raped me is now out of jail and I'm so scared because he told me that if I told anyone what he was gonna do to me he would kill me whenever he got out and I think he knows where I live and I'm always at home by my self. Also my ex-boyfriend is threatening me that he is going to rape me. I don't know why. I'm really scared and don't know what to do I tryed to look to family, but they acted like they didn't even care when I told them. Don't want to tell the cops about my ex-boyfriend stalking me and tthreatening me. I don't know what to do I'm tired of not being able to sleep at night worried that it's going to happen again. How should I deal with this kind of situation?Thanks for you help!
2006-10-06 03:17:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Well if you don't help yourself how will will it ever end. Put a restraining order on the rapist and your ex bf was a fool to make that statement too. File an order on him as well...if you don't nobody can help you ...you must mean busniness else you are guilty of allowing anything that happens, happen. Do you want to be a nervous wrenk all your life? Do something about them now! Let em know you mean it..and if anything happens to you, they are first suspects and will have a court message attached to their names forever....Do it..
2006-10-06 03:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have never been raped but i have been stalked and the best thing I can tell you to do is go to the police get a restraining order if that doesn't work by you being home alone get a dog. Also there is counseling for the rape issue try that. You could also try moving away from the city your in.
2006-10-06 03:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by COOKIE 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It will only provide limited help but go to the police about your ex boyfriend. It wouldn't hurt (though it may not provide a lot of security) to mention the situation about the guy that just got out of jail while you are there.
Second, find someone outside the family you can talk to. I'd recommend a female psychologist or counselor.
Third, remember the vast majority of people on here (myself included) can only give you unprofessional advice. Some of it may sound good but it would still be wise to go to a pro for advice.
I sincerely wish you the best and hope all works out for you.
2006-10-06 03:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sure sounds like it is time for you to move on with your life. You need to get up and go... move across the country to a new city... start a new life... and leave all those bad people behind you.
Seriously... you've got two insane men in your life... one who has raped you, and threatened you for putting him in jail... another who understands just how seriously the rape has impacted your mental stability... and he's using that against you, threatening you with another rape... and you've got a family who refuses to protect you and find you the help you need.
You need to take matters in your own hands. Get up... get out... and GO. Get as far away as you can, and don't look back.
There is a better life out there for you, and obviously you are in a dangerous place. GO.
Go NOW.
GO.
2006-10-06 03:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the police, you are being threatened. Also speak to a lawyer about the threats
Also work with a counselor who deals with sexual abuse. You should not be afraid for your life, you should be able to sleep. I am sorry that this happened to you but, you will be able to move on and you will find the strength.
2006-10-06 03:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One.. Tell the cops about your exboyfriend.. There are laws against that for a reason.
Two.. About being raped.. Have you been to therapy? I think you need to go and conitue going until you come to terms with what happened to you. Its not just going to go away.. Without help it will build up.
Seek help. From friends, family, law enforment, help groups.. anyone that is willing.
2006-10-06 03:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by oreocrumbles 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the BEST to answer this question, but what I do know is you cannot allow your fears to control you. Fear brings about weakness and weakness brings destruction. This is easy for me to say, but take control over your fear and refuse to let it control you. This is not to say in anyway that what you endured/are enduring is a light matter. What happened is a terrible thing, but you must conquer this, and know that you are strong enough to get through it.
2006-10-06 03:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Linder 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order on both of them- stand up for yourself, that is why they are doing this to you! Get a roommate, and get a dog today, babe! Get a German Shepperd, you'll be so much happier with your new friend, he'll bite the balls off those guys.
2006-10-06 03:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Relocate. Get professional help and get a restraining order.
You really need counseling
2006-10-06 03:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by NolaD 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
go to the cope and get a restraining order. tell them evrything
2006-10-06 03:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by MiKe 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋