2006-10-06 02:15:19 · 18 answers · asked by Jazzsuzan * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is possible
cause u can learn more about him after marriage then before the marriage
2006-10-06 02:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by INDI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't marry out of friendship and expect to fall in love with that person, Maybe it has worked for other's, but i had a horrible experience with it. I married my friend of 9yrs, only to end up resenting him and being abused by him, because he loved me and knew i didn't love him. We were divoreced after 2 yr's and i lost a friend. You really don't know a person til you live with them or go on vacation together.
2006-10-06 09:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not a correction facility that he can make you what you want after he gets you in the marriage...hey! You cannot love him in a marriage unless there is one in the beginning...But why are you with him? Is he rich? Couldn't you get someone whom you can love? and are you spending your time till a one more cents scenario happens to you( I will explain , if need be)....but if you do not love him...quite every thing and let him look for someone whom he would love and marry...Good luck for both on your own way.
2006-10-06 09:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to marry your best friend, but very bad to marry someone you don't love or is "in love" with. No one learns to love you, either you have chemistry or you don't! Keep it as friends!
2006-10-06 09:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by xcalibir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a chemical reaction which you have no control over You can not learn to love somebody. It's either there or its not. If you marry him and dont love him you will learn to resent him.
2006-10-06 09:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...there are customs out there that one doesn't have a choice...but you do. It is possible to eventually love someone you married...but it's not worth it. If you don't love him then don't marry him.
2006-10-06 09:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrose31474 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you'll only marry him when you start to having feelings but that you can't marry someone you don't love.
2006-10-06 09:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOunds like this person will take just about any chance,,,, Can you imagine living your life in a committed relationship and not loving one another!!!!!!!!
Arranged marriages often started like this........ back in the dark ages.... get a grip. tell him you are not interested and this is not the way to find a partner for life..... I feel sorry for him(her)
2006-10-06 09:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is done every day in other countries....It is very common, especially in India. Check out the movie "Straight from the heart"...it is a bollywood film about that very thing.
If you are not from india, it is not realistic. Stay away from him. He is delusional.
2006-10-06 09:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would not advice you to marry him because if your head and heart is not in it how can it work
2006-10-06 09:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋