Our sex life is good we try all kinds of positions but he can't last that long. He said this never happened to him before with any other girl he's dated. As soon as he gets in and go at it for about a minute or two he's about ready to explode. At first i was coky about it i was like man i must be really good but it happens every single time. When we first started dating he said he hadn't had sex in like a year and a half. could this be part of his problem. also he's away on business alot so we rarely see each other. like once every three to four months. maybe the time in between is playing a big role in him not being able to perform longer. maybe his body gets so excited that he's finally getting some and he can't control himself. someone please help me better grasp this situation. is it me or is it him and how can we fix this.
2006-10-06 02:10:24 · 16 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't listen to any answers,let him go to a doctor,answers here are for any other problem,but this problem must be solved by a doctor.
2006-10-06 02:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by ahotrealmanforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 06:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! Here we go! I have been married 16 yrs and hunny I feel your pain! Make sure there is more foreplay from him to you. Make sure you are "Done" then when he finishes fast, everyone is satisfied. And if he helps himself a couple hours before "Hand" then when you are together it should last longer. Also there is a cream @ local Adult stores that are a numbing cream that may help but ask your doctor 1st. Also when you are @ the Adult store pick something up for yourself. When he's "done" and you are not that could help as you could play together. But make sure your not all worried about the sex. As long as you are both in love and wanting to please eachother you will find a way. Good Luck
2006-10-06 02:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have a medical condition, likely psychological if he's never had that problem with anyone else; it's possible that beign apart for extended periods just gets him all hopped up to finish fast.
You can always try for second rounds after he busts the first one - just try to keep him awake or let him nap a while before attacking him while he's asleep.
2006-10-06 02:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just have a short trigger. Tell him to rub one out a couple hours before sex, that should help a little bit.
Oh, and ALL guys say it's never happened before with any girls they dated.
2006-10-06 02:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i have sex, my body has to get used to having sex to last longer. it's actually very normal for guys to only last a number of minutes... but when you have regular sex, it's like your penis builds up this resistance where you can last much longer.
also maybe he could try harder to hold back... like not go so fast & hard, and think non-sexy thoughts lol.
2006-10-06 02:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too hot for him or he is super horny. Do you try going again after the first time? There are creams which will reduce the sensitivity so he lasts longer.
2006-10-06 02:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of websites on the net that can tell you how to beat this. One of the best i've heard about is nasal technology when you can sniff something and it will make him last long ... I'm not joking.
2006-10-06 02:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more sex.....and make him stop and control the orgasam...most of the time he prolly can't....but it's a control thing.. he's gotta concentrate...concentrate....
it's hard...I left a man that had issues with that...he'd enter me...and ***...done...no wham even.....poor man..
I prefer more...but hard in a relationship....
good luck...be well...USE A CONDOM!!!!
2006-10-06 02:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-08 17:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋