im disobeying my parents to be with the one i love.. im only 17, but i have met the one i want to be with.. im a big Christian.. and i feel so bad... obey thy mother and thy father. =[.. i feel terrible.. but they don't understand.. and they have FORBID me to have any association with him.. but i still do.. any help??
2006-10-06 01:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by holly w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take him to bed, and have fun, then tell your parents that you're pregnant, they'll then learn to accept him...trust me it works all the time!!
2006-10-06 02:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by brazoian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to understand that you are young, WAY TOO young to know what you want in life. You can not have thought about things like politics, drinking, clubbing and gambling and partying in life because you are too young.
You will be changed by your life experiences more in the next few years than at any time in your life. Your parents know this. How do you know that 5 years from now you will still want to be with him?
Your parents have been around, You should trust their judgement on things. Most parents would not forbid you from seeing someone unless there is a real reason. Better that you listen to them now then when you are 19, divorced and crawling home with your baby.
2006-10-06 09:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have you discussed this with your feelings to your parents. Next, what is the justification for your parents to forbid you from seeing this person. And as your parents do they make good points about this person? Is this person worth hurting the relationship with your parents over. This love may last, but maybe it will not. Parents are always forever.
2006-10-06 09:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r too young to be sure that this is the person of your life, but if u really feel that way, think that u have to fight for your happiness, because everyone deserve to be happy. should explain this to your parents, and they might understand u, but if still don't forget what they are telling u , at the end after year u will be 18, and they couldn't mass in your life then. don't miss time in wondering what to do , find answer in your heart and act !
2006-10-06 09:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my ex. If it's forbidden for some reason you want it more. Don't go against your parents' wishes. Maybe there's a reason they don't like him? Wait it out for a little while maybe things will change. Going out behind their backs is never good though.
2006-10-06 09:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by bbygrl96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why have they forbid you to see this guy? They are correct, you are only 17 but next birthday you will be of legal age to do whatever you want.
2006-10-06 09:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have one more year before you turn 18 and then your parents will not be able to control you anymore if you can wait and he can wait you to can do what ever you wont.. Good luck i do no how hard it is to obey but sometime mother and father do not no what your heart is asking for..
2006-10-06 09:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im christian too...but you shouldn't go behind there back. about a month ago i was going to with a boy from my church but my parent didn't want me to date him so i didn't.
2006-10-06 09:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋