me and my boyfriend have been going out now 4 only a week , and already i think that i love him. hiw can i tell him this without scaring him of ???????????
2006-10-06 01:55:44 · 20 answers · asked by kizzyrbb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont ever tell a man that you love him first!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 01:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Emmauk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all people will react the same way to certain things. I wouldnt suggest on saying it unless youre really sure about it. A week its definitely not enough time to love someone, unless you want to take away the value of the concept. And not only that, certain males feel uncomfortable upon hearing stuff like that, mainly because they dont like compromises. Anyway, if you really feel it, you dont need to say it. Just act accordingly.
2006-10-06 09:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it all depends how old and "mature" your man is !!
If he is the sort of man who you think can deal with this matter - loving him in a short time - with great seriousness, and NOT TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED, then go for it and tell him.
But if you notice that he has not been that serious yet during this week you spent with him, then he is not ready to understand the gravity of the matter yet, and therefore you will loose him if you tell him, or you MIGHT endanger yourself to be under the mercy of his playful emotions IF he does not have feelings for you !!
So be careful, and good luck
2006-10-06 09:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Fadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't personally tell someone that I loved them after only a week,whats the harm in waiting if hes the right person for you. Good luck with whatever you decide to do x
2006-10-06 09:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it quiet 4 a bit and if u really need 2 tell sum1 tell ur best m8 then wait 4 a bit until the time is right because when i woz ganin wif my bf i wud ov felt abit scared after 1 week ovc him tellin me
2006-10-06 09:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Laura lvz david 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure!!!
And do believe in ---fall in love at the first time - and u have been going out for one week ---that is 7 days!!!
you will be together if there is love in between!
good luck!
2006-10-06 09:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scare him off? Be proud of your feelings and be honest. Why would you want to play games, they only make relationships harder.
But beware. Being honest means that you are prepared for the consequences.
Just remember that if you tell him and he runs away he certainly was NOT the one for you.
2006-10-06 09:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by sofiagk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love him after only a week?? I would think long and hard about your feeling first. Dont just blurt it out...take your time and wait a while.
2006-10-06 09:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Dee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont love him.... you cant after only a week.
You feel lust and the excitement of a new relationship.
Dont tell him.... keep it to yourself and see how things are working out in a few months time.
2006-10-06 08:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by squaddysam 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How confident are you that he feels the same way?
I always think a good way to start is to say something like' I'm really falling for you' and see what his reaction is. That way you end up saving a bit of face if he doesn't feel the same way!!!
2006-10-06 08:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 week???!!! How do you fall in love in a week, hmmm. I think you should wait, you might scare him off. Wait at least a month or so before dropping that one on him. You just never know how mature he is and how he'll take it.
2006-10-06 08:59:28 · answer #11 · answered by bbygrl96 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋