A guys view on a night over without sex, staying in the same bed with a beautiful woman?

Question

I am curious about how guys feel about staying over sleeping in the same bed without having sex with the girl.

Would the guy like the idea of just holding the woman?
Would the guy be upset tht he's not getting any?
Or
Would the guy enjoy being close to the woman?

I wanted to try this out but I am curious to what a guy would think about staying over to stay in the same bad with a woman that he's been dating for a while without having sex in the equation.
Would a guy like the idea of holding a beautiful woman in bed without having sex?
Let's think of it as a baby-step in the beginning of a relationship.

What's a guys view on that suggestion?

-Juleette-

Answer 1

I had two girlfriends that only wanted to sleep together the first few nights without any sex. I complied because i really liked both girls and respected that they wanted to take it slow.

I have to be honest it wasn't easy. When those primal instincts kick in they do so full force but hey, that's what cold showers are for.

You know come to think of it the sex was more intense after having waited a while.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

This all depends on the guy...

I am hoping you were clear that sex was not even a thought

A descent guy would respect your wishes and stay over without pressing the issue. Of course he might want to fool around a bit but that is human nature when you are next to a beautiful creature of th eopposite sex.

No someone without respect would stay over and continue to press the issue and pressure you. Either that or just say no and tell you that you were a tease by doing that

Hope that helps

Answer 3

I believe that you're taking the right approach, spending quality time with each other in such
an intimate setting such as your bed, can really tell you a lot about each other. I would definitely enjoy holding and hugging a lovely woman at night and waking up next to her the next morning even if it didn't lead to sex. It beats going to bed alone. If the guy is patient and really cares then he won't have a problem with it. I won't say that I wouldn't be excited in the morning, but I know she can be feeling the same thing :)~

Answer 4

To tell you the truth, I would be hoping & may try to start something, but if she didn’t want to, it wouldn’t be a huge problem. The one thing that would upset me is if she gave me the idea that there’s a good chance with sexually suggestive behavior. I’m not writing about kissing & general touching, holding each other kind of stuff. But I would advise you to be careful not to tease him.
I happen to like being close & holding a woman while falling asleep.

Answer 5

if you both agreed that there would not be any sex involved, then it should be ok for the guy to wait if he respects the woman. Earlier on with my boyfriend we did that and we held each other close, we kissed and slept entwined and cuddled a lot but nothing happened sexwise altough it was a major step in our relationship because it made me feel more respected and loved.

Answer 6

Guys are going to be guys of course they may try you to see how far they can get with you if they really like you and you turn them down they will probably have more respect for you and just appreciate the time they get to spend with you but if they just want to f%ck they may catch an attitude and not want to talk to you anymore give it a try and see what his reaction is this will show you alot about how he fell about you

Answer 7

First and significant ingredient: honey, we women people will never understand adult males. I particularly have been in the path of a similar ingredient as you. No intercourse for weeks or months. He blamed me, says i replaced into the single that did no longer choose it. He initiated intercourse for the 1st years of our courting (we've been mutually for 4) and now it replaced into my turn. We continually fought approximately money and his mom (whom lives with us), we've a 2 year previous who nonetheless keeps me up some nights, I paintings complete time, he owns his own enterprise and does not get homestead until late and that i flow away early. there is an entire record of excuses from him. yet in the tip it makes you experience undesirable, unattractive to him anymore, etc. Am I precise? consult with him. If he won't pay attention in jointly as sitting in the front room in the night. capture him once you flow to mattress. i in my opinion think of they get to a element in there existence while they think of us women people could desire to tutor them that we are nonetheless attracted to them. i eventually took issues into my own hands. I rolled precise over on him, started the foreplay etc, in the tip he could no longer say no. :) try that. If he's like all different guy accessible after fondling, etc. he won't have the means to say no. Even get precise on suitable. frequently throws them off yet what the hell we basically stay as quickly as.

Answer 8

I personally would not plan on spending the night in a bed with a guy I was not planning on sleeping with. It just seems like leading them on.
JMO

Answer 9

I personally would like it, something about being physically close to someone you have feelings for puts me in a place i want to be, very peaceful...but i'm not like most guys...i'd guess more often then not guys would want something in return

Answer 10

I have done that. It was just built up the anticipation for the sex later.