My dad and my closets friends think that my boyfriend is just trying to get in my pants, but I really don't know so I tested him out and stayed the night at his house and slept in bed wit him, but he didn't try anything we just cuddled the whole night, but when I told my friend that he didn't try nothing they still thought that that was all he was trying to do.What do you think?
2006-10-06 00:50:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friends know you better than anyone. They say these things becaused they are concerned about you and care for you. I would say 9 times out of 10 they would be right! But then again i'm assuming you know this guy better than they do! But remember this sex is enjoyable, why not just enjoy yourself and see what happens.
2006-10-06 00:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys?
Sex, though, is a natural part of being in a relationship, but if you are too young both of you need to steer clear and if you aren't able to abstain then you must use the proper precautions. Has he had sex before, have you? I don't know the guy so I can't tell you whether he is or not, but I can tell you that all guys think about it. Some are gentleman, will not push the issue and will wait until the girl is ready and some are assertive and really want to get on with it and use trickery to get you there. For ex.:
All the girls do it, why won't you
C'mon babe I love you, don't you love me? Don't you want to show each other how much in love we are?
But, if he hasn't tried to force the issue, then chances are he is a gentleman and I wouldn't worry about it. If and when you feel you are ready, be smart and safe.
2006-10-06 00:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, That is what most men do want.
You know how you feel. Unfortunally, part of growing up is the pain and joy that comes from realationships.
However, be careful. There is a lot of problems out there when it comes to sex. Pregnancy, std's and aids. Protect yourself when the time is right.
Don't be angy with you parents and friends either. They are trying to help you avoid the hurt some realationships can cause.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 00:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by desperately seeking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is trying to get into your pants .. then lend them to him.... Hahaha sorry.
Listen to me trust your instincts ok? Maybe others are right maybe not, I dont know but you go with what you feel is ok . ..ok? and be safe!
Dont spend too much time in life listening to others. Listen to your bf and pay attention to what he does. Actions speak louder. Seems to me he acted really well with you and gave you respect. Anyway who wants a bf that does't want to get into your pants?
Your father will usually think that a guy wants your body..he's just being a good daddy. But in the end you choose :) good luck!
2006-10-06 00:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to get into your pants he would have tried or done so when he had the opportunity. The typical guy would have done anyway. I am sure he wants more from you than just your pants. Test him again if you want BUT I think you have a decent guy on your hands.
2006-10-06 00:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by bammbamm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is jealous because your friend just wants to get into your pants? Maybe your dad is worried about you. As long as you trust yourself with your boyfriend then that is the most important part:) If you like hi forget about your friends oppinions and relax, life life confidantly and for yourself!
2006-10-06 00:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what do you want in the relationship? Once you know what you want, talk to your boyfriend honestly about this.
Good luck.
Also sex brings a whole new set of responsibilities and risk, take things slow.
2006-10-06 00:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could one set your boundries and #1 Tell the guy what you are comfortable with and how far you want your relationship to go.
#2 Tell your dad and friends to let you live your life and make your own decisions (nicely of course) you have to tell them or they will be second guessing you every time!
#3 maybe you want to get inside his pants it is not always a bad thing!
2006-10-06 00:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this different chick is a temptation to you, you must discover a brand new roommate. Be directly together with her and inform her to recognize your courting. If you do not rise up to your gf. she'll keep to behave this manner. Cause she thinks you would like her & deliver in.
2016-08-29 07:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand it from your dad's ad your friedns oint of view. your dad was a kid once and your friends might be guys so there are just telling you what goes through a guys head at that age cause ur dad went through it and your friends are right now.
2006-10-06 00:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋