2006-10-06 00:47:15 · 30 answers · asked by daftoldwoman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are genuine men in the world in about the same proportion as genuine women. So thats not many :)
2006-10-06 00:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Janbull 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do we mean by 'thing' and 'geneuine'? The two terms exist. So, to say someone is genuine means that that person is a trustworthy person. So, to answer the question, yes there is a such a thing as being 'genuine'. But first if you want to meet someone who is genuine you better first judge youself and see if you are genuine and you deserve someone who is genuine. Respecting oneself and admiring others will attract the so-called 'genuine men.' if by being genuine we refer to a virtuos person, then everyone is genuine. But what will count much is how you feel and what are your expectations; no one can give what he/she does not have. Therefore, genuine men go to genuine women. That is it. If you are not forget. No one would come to someone who is not genuine.Be what you want others to be.
2006-10-06 08:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Puseletso J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse there is such a thing. Meeting genuine men though is not easy. It is important to keep your standards high, don't listen to all the other garbage media tells you. In order to meet someone with substance you have to first ask yourself, "Am I a genuine person", and stop going to bars and local chat rooms to meet these "men". Start maybe with chruch, or a local human rights cause.
2006-10-06 07:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by brunette_lovely05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such a thing as a genuine man as i married one, but where to find them remains a mystery. i think its more by chance you meet them. even a genuine man has different interests so its not like they hang out in a genuine bar but you will know when you have found a genuine man, and when you do keep hold of him because they are hard to come by.
2006-10-06 08:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by shayney boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A genuine man ? hmm
If there are genuine women I think you could sucessfully find a genuine mann.
Do you deserve one, you are essentially asking to find a guy that tells the truth. Do you tell the truth to others and more importantly your self.
By telling the truth to yourself and I mean taking responsibility for things when bad things happen to you, i.e: taking responsibility for stuff you could have done to make a situation turn out better. And do you do this instead of blaming someone, like a man for instance.
You can find a genuine man but mostly genuine men like and want genuine women !!
Do whatever you can to get the results you want.
good luck
2006-10-06 07:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By you being a genuine woman. Men on the other hand are use to playing games it comes outta instinct. It all goes back to men being taught to be tough and not to cry are show weakness. Most men are just really looking for a women to understand them. Now when a women shows that shes willing to be just as vulnerable as him he wont be so scared to open up. The same way women feel about being stereo typed as "hoes" men feel the same way about being stereo typed as "dogs." With understanding and courage to be able to step out of your comfort zone, so will he. Then he will show his true colors. And how he actually feels. Honesty and trust is the foundation of any healthy relationships.
2006-10-06 07:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by QUEEN JIZZY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that hard, you just have to look harder.
Imagine you go in to a cat refuge with the aim of taking a stray home as your pet. You go by row after row of cages, all filled with hissing, spitting, snarling cats who are trying to claw at you through the wire; these are your common man. You notice them most because there are more of them, and they are really in your face.
But if you look harder you'll see the little kitty at the end of the row all hunkered down in the back of his cage, big eyes and fluffy tail. This is your genuine man; harder to spot because he so much quieter and reserved than the others, and he is very outnumbered by the un-genuine men. Quite often he has been made this quiet by other cats, who are so aggressive that he feels he hsa to stay subdued.
So there you go, hope my slap-dash analogy helps! If you want to chat email me- and good luck!
2006-10-06 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Don't just restrict yourself to the confident ones who come onto you. Talk to guys you wouldn't normally go for. We are everywhere, but if we see you spending the evening talking to an obvious game player then we can only assume that you are either really dim or desperate for attention.
To lure a guy out, all you need to do is let him catch you looking at him twice. One of my female friends is a East European model and gets chased everywhere by horny black guys. After she was finished toying with them on the night we met, she used this trick on me and I went over wondering if we knew each other from somewhere.
2006-10-06 22:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Freelancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are such a thing but more importantly you need to meet someone who is right for you!!!!
2006-10-06 08:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by themis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are good men out there. All the men i have dated from my divorce have been pigs,,,, This one was so good to me he would of give me the world if i had ask him. But i was the silly one to let him go, i am so used to being treated bad by men that i just couldn't cope with a good one
2006-10-06 07:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋