I been talking to this girl for about a few months. We did have a bf/gf relationship which only lasted a mere 2 weeks, but we still talk a lot and date a lot. Then there are those times where we do hug and cuddle and do what a couple would do. It's just that, we dont go out and she gets jealous over any other girls I come in contact with. She gets mad a lot and she drives me crazy. We can't go a day without talking to each other or be apart.
Is this love or a fling that would fall apart in the end?
2006-10-06 00:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by yoguh1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry dude but you need to get a grip! Do you wanna be with this girl or not? If you do you need to bang the other girls on the head. If you dont you gotta stop leading her on. Tell her you just want to be friends and stop the cuddles and the other stuff!
2006-10-06 00:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it's a little hard to answer that question...I say that because whether or not you guys stay together depends on your tolerance level. Can you deal with her getting mad all the time? If you can deal with it then it will last for as long as you want it to. Then another question comes to mind....when you do "come in contact with " other girls, is it in a disrespectful manner? Does she know the girls that you are coming in contact with? If not, are you introducing these other females to her so she doesn't feel uncomfortable? Another thing is if she is getting mad like this all of the time, she may grow sick and tired of whatever she is so upset over and decide not to deal with you anymore. So I guess there is really no way to say whether or not your relationship will fall apart or not. The best advice I can truly give is to make sure that your not disrespecting this girl and talk to her about her anger. Do the best that you can do because you truly can't control other people. If she still does not change her temper after speaking with her and doing the best you can to make her feel comfortable when you do come in contact with other females...then you have to decide whether being with her is truly worth it....
2006-10-06 00:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by KieraSimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me. I chased a girl for more than a year and we did everything couples do except...I made myself take some time away from her when we started hanging out again, I realized she was just lonely, and I mean lonely to the point she can never be around enough people for long enough and be satisfied. I feel sad for her, but know I can't do anything to fix it. Even if I do give her my attention...it's like a black hole. Anything that falls into it just...disappears, like it was never there. Don't hide from her, but don't let yourself be decieved, either. You can't love her until she loves herself, and you can't make her do that or do it for her (though she is looking for people to try!).
And BTW, I found the most amazing girl like 2 months after I decided to quit trying with this other girl and we have been dating for almost 6 mos now.
2006-10-06 01:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you say this lasted a mere two weeks, the way i see it the two of you are still at it, the only difference is there has been no agreement to define it now let me do it for you, its not love. love is open and honest (most of the time) basically you're enjoying a casuall fling. i dont know why you're complaining though, you're a guy who's getting free you-know-what-enjoy it while it lasts!!
2006-10-06 01:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-06 00:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you wait 4 a while...maybe 4 a year or so..
i guess stuff will be clear to you.you need a change from the usual way of life, sth lke this routine you both follow....you need a situation to understand what this abt...
2006-10-06 00:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by lynora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has some feelings still for you. If she is your friend...sit down and talk. Tell her what you notice and maybe you could try it again. Sometimes you don;t know what you have untill you lose it.
Good luck.
2006-10-06 00:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by desperately seeking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like a relationship of convenience.I really don't see it going anywhere long term, but if you are both happy with it the way it is at present, and no one else is being hurt over it I can't see the problem.
2006-10-06 00:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by pixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u have a heart to heart talk..? so that u may both know wats the real score between the two of you.. then settle it..
well maybe she's not over with you yet..
2006-10-06 00:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Maia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋