Just reassure her, she is very sexy, attractive, and turns you on. Tell her that her and her body are beautiful and that her being on top really gets you going and you love it! If you consistently do this, I can see her getting more comfortable. One put down ruins the other 99 compliments. So you have to shower her with compliments. Women are very self-conscious and they ought to be because of our twisted, unfocused society. Society's version of the ideal woman or man, is not accurate or normal.
2006-10-06 00:50:11
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answered by Bailey 2
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I am a larger girl and I have only ever done this with one man. He did all the things that the other answers suggested.. compliments, told me how much I turned him on and how that postition was his ultimate turn on.
I felt comfortable around him but he was also very strong, he was 6ft3 and weighed about 87 kilos and it was all muscles. He was able to take my weight and never once complained when I was on top.
I did try with another boyfriend ages ago but he was as thin as a twig and I thought that I would break him in half. When we did try he only lasted a few minutes and I had to stop. That was enough to make me not want to try agian with him.
2006-10-06 08:10:11
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answered by wickedly_funny66 5
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I can't see why she'd be uncomfortable. Maybe you'd feel a bit winded if she sits on your belly but if you have strong legs then you can bend your knees and provide back support for her while she rocks.
I've always preffered to be on top with bigger girls because their soft bodies feel great under me. More athletic types are able to comfortbaly take part in a greater range of positions but I prefer comfort.
2006-10-06 07:54:34
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answered by Anonymous
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2006-10-06 07:44:10
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answered by b b 1
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First of all please don't make her feel that she is heavy.. MAke her feel that she is hot.. When she's on top, make her feel comfortable.. Let her hold into sumthing to support her weight...
2006-10-06 07:46:51
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answered by sweetangel_theresa 2
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