Treat you like a queen and like they are in love with you...then the minute you sleep with them you're a "hoe" and they can't believe how sleazy you are or that you slept with them! They make you out to be easy,when they know they worked hard and pulled out all the stops to get you in bed!.This is sooo viscous,but I've experienced it once and witnessed it many a time...Why do they do this?.......Do they ever feel bad about this?
2006-10-06 00:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they firstly nice to you so that they can gain your confidence in them to get you into bed. then they say you a hoe so that you can feel guilty and try to suck up to him to make him feel the same as he did when he first met you. guys dont really bad cause unlike girls we arent really emotional beings and guys are always trying to prove to thier mates how many chicks they have banged.
but dont worry...there are some guys out there with good morals and manners.
2006-10-06 00:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by mr_zot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, a certain type of male (I won't call them men) will do this time and time again.
No, they never feel bad about this, they brag about it when they're having a few with their friends.
Now, if you want to do something more productive about it than moaning and crying, change your behaviour. Don't sleep with anyone until you know them well enough to feel confident that they won't treat you like a doormat. If you're not sure, just keep those legs closed.
2006-10-06 07:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they were not taught how to treat a woman. those males tend to be very self-centered and feel if they "pay 4 it" they owe u no commitment in return. in the future, pay more attention 2 the way he handles his BUDDIES. competing 2 have the biggest/best/newest complaining they cannot KEEP UP w/the times r all subtle hints the only 1 important 2 this male is in the MIRROR
2006-10-06 07:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by borrowedtime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a lil sum sum... From my experiences with these kind of situations. Guys like gurls who are hard to get if they really want to be with them. If they are really trying to sleep with you and telling you all these lil love words they want you to think that so you feel that they care about you. In reality they dont give a **** about you. they just want to get a peice of ***. and they will keep doing it over and over intill you relize that they juss want to have "sex" nothing more.. Its life with asshole men like them. But not all men are like that because I have a very sexi, respectable, smart, gentle, cuddly, and not to forget he is very understanding with my situation and my personal feelings. Now You see it take sum playing and going out and having fun and being yourself and being honest with people to find the man of ur dreams look for one that enjoys being around you and you enjoy being around him. OH YA.. BE OPEN WITH HIM , FRIENDS , AND FAMILY thats what I learned.
P.S
My boyfriend said the first step to getting respect from men is to respect yourself. As long as you stay true to that, a good man will come your way.
2006-10-06 07:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by QUEEN JIZZY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always had a rule, first they need to take you out for a few nice dinners, then i usually waited for at least 6 or 7 dates to sleep with them. i got this advice from my best guy friend who a lot of girls liked.
2006-10-06 07:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Obviously Mixing with the Wrong type of Man!
Never give yourself to anyone then this would Not happen!!
Respect yourself!
2006-10-06 07:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People Sometimes make up the most ignorant exscuses to JUSTIFY their behavior (e.g. breaking up ect) to themselves and others.
2006-10-06 07:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't feel bad that's why they are call BOYS not MEN
2006-10-06 07:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because once they've screwed you they've already won and don't need to play anymore.
2006-10-06 07:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they do that becasue they only wanted to sleep with you. find a better type of guy who doesn't pressure you for sex.
2006-10-06 07:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋