I broke up with my bf this was due to some issues I had. I am trying to keep in contact as much as possible and trying not to be clingy. I want to show him that it is worth trying again with me because I dnt want an on off realationship. I know we had other issues as well but they can be sorted. I just want him to know how much I love him, But I dnt want to seem like I am gunna muck him about again. So confused!!! Help!
2006-10-05 23:51:55 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm I rang him and told him how i felt, he didn't say nething so i just said ok bye. I tried to talk to him at college but he just sed were not going there again, I still love you though. He wants to be friends and I said I can't keep in contact because it hurts to much. But when I try to be his friend I get ignored.
2006-10-06 00:06:05 · update #1
No point nemre he is trying to break up his best mate n his gf so they cn get it on. I dnt wanna b friends with him let alone wiv him again!! Thanxs for all ur answers, you guys are really helping
2006-10-06 22:53:12 · update #2
Hmm, this sounds like a bad situation for you and him. I know that relationships take work, and that life is no fairy tale, but sometimes you just have to realize when it has become an unhealthy obsession. Let this go. You guys have got to stop hurting each other.
2006-10-06 00:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider whether it really can be sorted out or not. Sometimes it is worth trying again but it will never be the same as it was before. Make sure it is really what you want. If there is a lot to sort out then you may not be able to sort it out. I think you should take your time and make sure that you're not just reacting to the fact that the relationship is ending...it can make you think that there is more worth in it, when you're hurting.
2006-10-06 06:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by twinkletoestheballerina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the relationship you are dominating him with these issues, He loves you but is scared that it's all going to end in tears.
Sounds like you really need to apologise for your behaviour and put in place a structure that will enable you to deal with new issues as they come up or certainly not dominate you b/f with them. If you then believe that you can move forwards with less of these issue then you might explain to your ex boyfriend that you have sorted yourself and he need not be scared of you causing further upset. If you believe you can he is more likly to.
If he believes you or is willing to give you a test period then you really must walk ur talk
good luck girl
2006-10-06 07:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you should do is resolve your issues first and foremost.just because you dont want an on and off relationship that alone wouldnt get me back. tell him you love him and that you deeply sorry for letting your issues get in the way of your relationship and that you will not let it happen again.and if it does start to you will talk to him about them and then maybe he can help to resolve them give him a chance espessialy if you really do love him .let love be your guide not your issues. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 07:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by rick y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tasher
you sound pretty confused about what you want, I don't really know how to help you. All i can say is go with your heart, In the end you will know what to do. Don't take it to heart what other people is answering you, I wish you the best of luck
2006-10-06 07:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him, say that you still really like him and would like to sort out your problems. If he doesn't want to, move on, there is nothing you can do. But you must stop contacting him then. If he does, work on your issues, but don't go on about them, just try to get over them.
2006-10-06 06:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Emma W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont act too desperate it will put him off. Mention you are going out for a drink with a male friend to get his perspective, if hes bothered he will react, if he reacts you know he still cares and there is a chance.
2006-10-06 07:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Annie M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
text him - tell him youre not gona be strung along so if he wants you leave him alone fine - but you would like to give it another shot. If he texts back cool - if not you have your answer - hes not interested xx
2006-10-06 07:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy, make him happy, then try to dump him for #1. I bet you won't be able to.
2006-10-06 06:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get right away for a MONTH
that will give you both the time to think....so use it ok?
and keep busy too... good luck,x
2006-10-06 09:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋