2006-10-05 23:39:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer having sex with the lights on so that I can see what I'm doing! I think women that want to turn the lights off have something to hide - they are insecure about themselves. For most guys, visual stimulation during sex is the biggest turn on. We need to see what we're having sex with.
2006-10-05 23:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie Brigante 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its nice to try all diferent lighting , daylight , bright or off, and of course dim, and candles are cool too,.. i also have a cool blue flourescent under the bed lol, weird light ...cooll glow to the room... in my experience a confident and sexy woman does not mind lights on, may last one was a real looker, and loved being admired.. on tne other hand if the lady has some issues , weight and such , she s more likely to feel better in half light, and thats no problem , GUYS are very visual, thats why we go for looks, this does not suddenly change when we get to the sexy stuff. if a girl likes them off all the time , i would get annoyed,, thats my opinion,, M
2006-10-05 23:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by matt_c572001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think guys just like having sex - lights on - lights off - daylight - twilight - night time - morning - afternoon - does it matter. If you feel better with the light off go for a compromise and get a very low wattage light that can hide a multitude of imperfections.
2006-10-06 00:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a light on ... a bedside lamp is good, better if you cover it with something to diffuse the light a little (make sure it's not going to go up in flames though!)
Men like to see what's happening, women only want the light to flatter them so a nice ambient light would be best
2006-10-06 03:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to have some light, dimlight is good. Lights off tells me that she is either insecure about her body or very shy. Neither impress me too much.
2006-10-05 23:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends upon you. If you are short and fat with stretch marks and zits by all means turn off the lights and light a candle...On the other hand if you are tall, slim and beautiful go outside at noon but be sure to send me the videotape!
2006-10-06 00:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by mburkeslaw 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If both are in good mood , lights hardly matter , dim or bright , will enjoy till exhausted with joys.
2006-10-06 00:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found most guys want the lights on!
2006-10-05 23:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in the light, sometimes in the dark
It would not be a turn off for me. as long as my other senses were keep fully busy (feel, smell and taste :-)
2006-10-05 23:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by SeabourneFerriesLtd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it with the light off, then I can pull whatever stupid faces I pull when I am enjoying it and not feel embarassed
2006-10-05 23:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋