when i decide to sleep with him and what can i expect bcause it will be a first time sleeping with a man
2006-10-05 23:26:36 · 29 answers · asked by sedelex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a lucky man he is .. its a beautiful gift your giving him
I don't think your going to have any problems dear .other then your nerves *wink* thats ok .....
Rules about sex are impossible-- what should matter is that what you do makes you feel good. And "feeling good" should last past the sex itself-- you should not feel anxious afterwards about getting pregnant or catching some horrible disease, so planning ahead about contraception and safe sex is part of the idea.
Avoid eating a heavy meal, since that'll just make you sleepy. Eat light, don't drink too much alcohol, if any at all. It may help you shed inhibitions, but it may also make his erection much more difficult to achieve and you want to spend more time in the bedroom than the bathroom anyway, right?
You have probably heard horror stories about how much losing your virginity hurts. For a few women, it does, but with the right touch and the right partner, you should be able to take his penis into your body without pain. Have him take his time, use a lubricant, and press his fingers into you, opening you up slowly. Tell him when it feels good and when it hurts.
It is it is VERY IMPORTANT that you are fully aroused before any penetration takes place....
Have fun and be safe ...
2006-10-05 23:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age difference would depend on what you both have in common? Do you enjoy many of the same things? Do you share long and enjoyable conversations with one another? Being a virgin does not mean you are ignorant and cannot have a decent conversation about life experiences or knowledge. It also doesn't mean you cannot conduct yourself like a responsible adult. Before you give in, make sure he isn't after you to make a notch in his belt. Know that he is genuinely interested in you for much more than that. If he is a good man, he will be patient and gentle on your first time and that makes all the difference in the world.
2006-10-05 23:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by bonnie l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no definate answer to how it'll b seeing i'm pretty sure at his age he is EXPERIENCED u will have to let him know how u are feeling and set teh pace for what ur comfortable with. as for the age diff. well obviously ur level of thinking is diff. as well as the level of where u are mentally for him things are at a much slower, more settle pace u on the other hand may b more youthful and unsettled. i mean he's like 50! ur not even near 40! life has taught both of u diff. aspects
Well i wish u well since u kept ur Virginity this long i hope he is Worth it to U!!
2006-10-05 23:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun age is only a number it's the love that's in your heart and if you love him as much as he loves you. As for your first time sleeping with a man you are going to experience the joy of sexual gratification for the very first time mind you it will hurt a little when he penetrates you. And don't be afraid to tell him that you are a virgin cause he will be gentle with you
2006-10-05 23:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by doubleg2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only age problem is 49 and anyone Under 18.
2006-10-05 23:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by simvils 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you are a virgin? I think at his age he has learnt the fine art so don't worry I think he will be gentle. I think he would really enjoy teaching you what he knows. The age difference is no biggie so don't sweat it. Just enjoy what is about to happen, trust me, it is a lot of fun.
2006-10-05 23:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is an increased chance of things like autism in a guys trying to have kinds at later age & obviously there's a likelihood of you being bereaved in the next 20 years because most men pass between 55 & 65 but sexually? i don't think so,unless there r medical issues 2b considered.
2006-10-05 23:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age difference is not the problem. Throwing away virginity without marrying, that's the problem.
2006-10-05 23:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as long as he knows you are a virgin and to take it slow and gentle you should be fine. i'm dating a 48 year old and the sex is amazing. so enjoy. the age difference doesn't matter as long as you two love each other.
2006-10-06 00:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a 32 year old liar,needing a little attention are we? Oh yeah, the age difference, will make a big difference,for every year older he is than you,he got rewarded with an extra inch....get ready to lose more than your virginity, but you already have, haven't you....HURRY BOYS>>>>32 YEAR OLD VIRGIN>>>>my ***!
2006-10-05 23:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by melanie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋