I am a woman, and I am curious what guys do, or where they go when they really want to meet a nice girl. Not just to hook up, or get laid. I've met guys at bars and clubs, who want my number, but I usually stay away from them, just because of the environment. And what it tells me they want. I also see plenty of guys who are attracted to me at normal places like the grocery store or coffee shop, but they don't seem like they are comfortable approaching me, at least not any more than to comment on my looks or eyes, but that's it. Where do you guys go that you feel comfortable flirting with women?
2006-10-05 22:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whorehouse.
JUST KIDDING.
If men are complimenting you at the grocery store, you are 'beautiful and attractive'.
It takes a lot of confidence for some men to approach a woman and compliment her because most men....won't say anything even though they want to. If a man seems nervous... its because HE IS.
Men feel that a grocery store or a coffee shop is actually neutral ground. Not obvious or sleazy like bar might be.
Be open. Those guys might actually be really cool.
2006-10-05 22:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i know exactly what you mean...
guys like myself often find that appoaching a women outside the "area of preferred rejection" (i just made that up... pretty good huh?) will not even think of going up to a women, especially not in a grocery stor, because it seems so cliched and silly, and also looks rather desperate. AND if you turn him down he then has to walk past you like 4 other times before he leaves the store....
BARS and CLUBS ar egreat for guys because even when you go up to a woman, IF she says no thanks, then you got your friends or others in general to fall back and retreat to... the "safe zone" (just making all this sh!t up...). but again... some guys find it hard to approach a woman at a bar because of the scary people around her....lol, if you see a girl you like, sitting with like 6 of her friends, you have FAR less chance of walking oer there and asking, because it then feels like your asking 7 girls at once... ALSO, girls and guys often fall victim of peer pressuse in these circumstances, if a guy came up to the group, even if she liked him, the rest of her friends might be like... "he's a loser, you can't talk to him" thus making the woman feel less likely to say yes...
best thign a woman could do if she is looking for someone, is to go out in pairs...
two woman is far easier to chat to... coz the guy could wait til one of you is at the bar before he appraoches, or he could just ask then seen as the "fear factor" is reduced from 6 others to one...
obviously dress nice, but not slutty, as this will attract the wrong type of guy... though i suppose it all depends on what type of guy you are looking for...
anyway hope this helped...
my ramblings always do...lol
2006-10-06 05:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere. It's always difficult. If a guy comments on a girl's looks or eyes, isn't it her move? We don't want to pressure anyone. The beach is the only place I can think of that I have done anything close to flirting and it's not fun getting stung for reaching out, you know? So sometimes you've got to realize it's your move.
2006-10-06 05:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a guy's only comfortable flirting with a girl if he knows he's not going 2get rejected. I'm a guy, I say that men are unreliable on that front if you wait, you could be putting your life on hold for someone you're not due to meet for another couple of years. Why not chat us up?
Observe us, take your time & when you see one of us you like, pounce. I'd go weak @ the knees if it happened 2me!
2006-10-06 05:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everywhere street,club pretty much anywhere we just feel it is more appropriate in the club it is to be expected unlike at the grocery store.
2006-10-06 05:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by niko4t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, i just walk down the street and say nice things to ladies that walk by me..
2006-10-06 05:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Darling. Please let it know that guys are attracted by the women who are sexy and loving. Their prime desire of meeting with nice girl is to do sex and have intimate relations with them with the ulterior motive of sexual intercourse. When they ask for your tel No. they are interested in doing sex with you. So please if you want sexual satisfaction, you encourage them and provide all relevant information to them.
2006-10-06 05:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pretty much anywhere movies, mall, park, bus etc it depends on the guy
2006-10-06 05:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually flip up the skirts of the girls I like. I'm just not sure what else to do...
Oh wait...that was 3rd grade...Sorry...
2006-10-06 05:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Billy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tough question, i mean it's totally individual. don't know really but it's happening almost everywhere.
2006-10-06 05:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋