how would you feel if the guy whom you love told you this--->thats why we should never get married co'z i can't remember your b-day,aniversary,myb-day,our kids b-day...anything....How?and what will you say?
2006-10-05 22:36:16 · 35 answers · asked by LilyflowerChinne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry. Could you repeat what you were saying... I must have missed it.
2006-10-05 22:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your guy is having memory problem if he was not joking when he told you that. You'd better take him to a medical expert on his problem so that he would be given some medications for the same.
But if he was joking then, he must be evading marriage topics because possibly he is not yet ready to get married. You may ask him if he was joking then so that you will have peace of mind and be clarified on the matter. Otherwise, you will have continuous doubts about his sincerity in having a serious relationship with you. All the best.
2006-10-05 22:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a hint and drop his *** before he drops you. Sounds like he already has though. He beat you to it.
If he is not willing to put forth the effort to remember at least your birthday then that should let you know how he feels about you.
Duh, no brainer. Now detach your heart from this sucka.
2006-10-05 22:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by cinattra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lilly,
Nobody is perfect in this world. Neither you nor him... He might not be good in keeping dates in his mind. But he might be good in SO many other things..
Remember buddy.. we make relations not on the basis of wrong things. We only seeks for good things..
If he is not able to remind the date, it should be your turn to make him aware that these small small things can make some one feel special.
It could be done by any way like giving tip to the waiter, or by reminding any good occasion.
Regards,
Santosh
2006-10-06 00:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Santosh Kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's making up excuses why he won't marry you, and piss poor ones at that. What it comes down to is he just don't want to get married and unless you're willing to wait on him, you should move on.
I never understood why men just can't come out and say they don't want to get married yet instead of making up dumb excuses. They're the men, they're supposed to have the gonads to do that.
2006-10-05 22:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That perhaps you should take a second look at him and ask yourself if he really loves you. True love consists of many parts, one of them being the knowledge of all of the one you love. That may just be my perception, but once I know something, I rarely forget it, especially if it pertains to the one I love. Give me a chance to learn and I will store the knowledge within my heart for eternity........Be sure.......
2006-10-05 22:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then that's great, there'll be no more anniversaries or birthdays to celebrate. you'll be able to save more and spend less. How about NOT having a wedding either? Aww... that'll be too cruel. Anyway, if you really love this guy, and you want to stick with him forever, then you'll find solutions for this or find ways how to improve his memory.
2006-10-05 22:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by diplomat_safe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows that it is his weakness being stupid not to remember important dates and he is not doing anything to fix it. would it hurt him to write in a little notebook the important dates to remember? well, he is not worth it. if a guy really likes you (more so if he loves you), he will remember the important dates (not necessarily all of them, the petty ones can go). he will even give you the details of the event. guys who don't remember important dates are not worth it. unless of course you want to live a life without romance. or you can tell him that you will forget his birthday too, to break even.!!! hehe..
2006-10-05 22:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'ts not about good memory ,its about love.The problem is he doesnt know what love is ,maybe he had heard people saying the best way to love is to spoil.That guy knows nothing about marriage or he now wants to get rid of you.
2006-10-05 22:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by LUTHANDO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would have to reevalutate my values. do I want to stay with a guy who has such a hard time remembering things? some women wouldn't care. Other women would. It's really up to how you feel about it.
2006-10-05 22:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm so he is tryin to be smart huh!
give a smart answer - "if thats the only reason, don worry, i m enuff to remember evrythin n will keep reminding u of all the aniverseries... so now lets get married?"
2006-10-05 22:46:43 · answer #11 · answered by TulipGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋