2006-10-05 22:35:03 · 32 answers · asked by noor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG TO TELL ALL THE THINGS TO PARENTS AND PARENTS ALSO HAVE FRIENDLY ATTITUDE TOWARDS THEIR WARDS AND ALSO GIVE BEST ADVISE ON ALL TOPICS INCLUDING SEX AND LOVE.
2006-10-06 16:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define "everything."
They don't need all the intimate details of your life, but they should know the general picture of what is going on.
Examples:
If you are dating someone, they should know who it is, where you go, what you do, and they should meet the person. They don't need to hear about the two hour make out session in the backseat of the car.
If you tried drugs, or got drunk, they don't need to hear about how you got sick and spent the night "praying to the porcelain." They do need to know that it happened so they can give you advice, and help you to deal with the situation if it comes up again.
The more they know, they better parents they can be. Most kids forget that their parents were once young. They probably have already tried whatever you want to, so they do know what they are talking about. In many cases, they can even point you in the right direction.
2006-10-05 22:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should say everything to your parents because they are your greatest friends and the biggest wellwisher.if you do a wrong thing u may get a scolding but always remember that ur parents will be the first one to protect you from any danger without about their own life.so be true to your parents and never do anything that u cant share with ur parents.
2006-10-05 22:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!..I'll never tell them everything..if i did so...then they won't stop talking about every single stupid detail for life long, and mostly the whole family will know about the little mistake u did "aunt ,uncles,grand parents"...and may be neighbours and everysingle one in the whole world...i tried it b4, it's no way to communicate wiz them..just tell them what they need to know to make them feel that u r on a right way and u'll never make a mistake ...that's all
2006-10-05 22:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by sara_kady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic thing is that your parents should understand your feelings.If you share a relationship in which you feel you can discuss anything with your parents, and that they will understand you, then go ahead and discuss allthe issues with them.
But if it is the other way round, then ask for somebody's help, if you really think that it should be known to your parents.
2006-10-05 22:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. if you share a very good friendly relationship with your parents and they always support you in your problems and u know that they will understand you then it's worth telling them everything u have in your heart. If not, then it depends on the subject matter u want to tell them about depending on your parents' character.
2006-10-05 22:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. There r some secrets of ur which should never be telled coz it can create shocks to ur parents. U can tell those secrets to ur parents which they can eat properly.(Notice the word "eat")
It is better to create a secret diary. A diary in computer should be more perferable as for opening diary u need at least 2 passwords. After ur death some one come to know about ur secrets if he/she cracked the passwords of ur diary. I am saying u to write a diary coz every person cannot bear the burden of his secrets in his/her heart. contact me if u want to.
2006-10-06 08:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, becuase, they are your parents, and best for you, no one know better then them
take them as your friends and share your feelings. at the stage of 18 we can think they are wrong, bec we are not getting answer as per our requirement, but when we grow up and see they was right, as they are parents, they never want any thing wrong for us.
try to make them a part of your life, u will see they do more for you, what ever they can.
your mother and father at the time of when u were too small they give u more fun, storry gifts cloths, for whom they were doing all this just for you, they donot have any personal interest inspite of give you happyness, smile on your face,
just give one chance they will be your friends for whole life.
2006-10-05 22:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by sharanjeet7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is better if you tell everything to your parents.But certain things are not to be told therefore you should know the art, to know that what are the things to be told to your parents,so that you should be able to say that you are telling all the things to your parents.
2006-10-05 22:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... i think there everyone has a private n secret desire...or say..turth...may be it looks different from different point of views. for example...a father or mother may has a secret relationship... in their adulthood....and now it is no longer exists...but they often not comfortable to share those moments to their kids...this may spoil their image....to their children....in same manner..everybody's home environment is not same....somehas parent..frank ....but in india...parents are mostly.. more concern about their kids....which make kids...overpresurred.even parent sometimes didn't understand all the friendships- n relationship we have
2006-10-05 22:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by eurohitman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋