We are together one month, I like him, I know that he likes me a lot.He always says I like you, I want to be with you, but he has never said I LOVE YOU!He hasn't said these words yet.What should I do?Should I tell him first or should I wait for him, to tell me???????Or you think that is early for these words???
PS I am 18 and this is my second relationship so I don't have much experience, that's why I am asking you for help.I hope you will answer this, please!!!!!
2006-10-05 22:19:00 · 23 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont rush it.. he will tell you.. i promise.. if he want gunna say it, he wu=ouldnt have said he wants to be with you..
2006-10-05 22:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Claude 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, there is a such thing as love at first sight. But you will know. If you think you love him, ask yourself how would your life be affected if he were not in it. If the difference is not much, then you probably don't love him. I would wait, even if you are in love. What if he isn't and you scare him? Normally, one month is too soon if it isn't love at first sight. Just don't sleep with him. That would cause too many headaches. Good luck!
2006-10-06 05:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i dont think its too soon or its too early .. if youre looking for love wait for it to happen ... trust me you dont have to think a second time when u love someone ... and so does the other person .. so if u ask me dont do anything .. you like each other its great ... if its real love u ll yourself say it without asking anyone ... dont wait for anything if u love him say it .. if his reaction is not positive accept that hes not that into u .. its better to know this as soon as possible in a relationship .. its just one month ... the facts are here .. choice is yours ...
meanwhile just enjoy the relationship ... dont forget to have fun ...
2006-10-06 05:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Yash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 wow!...well first of all it is too early...wayyyy too early to be telling someone that you love them. You don't even know him yet. Even after 2 years you still won't know everything about him. When he is ready he will tell you that he loves you, you can't force it out of a person and you don't want to be with someone who is tell you that just because you want to hear it....Just slow down you have the rest of your life to fall in love and when you do it will be great!
2006-10-06 05:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Teena R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 18, you have plenty of time to wait until he tell you the magic word. You don't have experience how you know what is Love - take a time to find out.
2006-10-06 05:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just saying those words don't mean anything unless actions show it. A lot of men say those words just to get in a woman's pants. So if he don't say it right away he most likely wants to make sure he is before he does.
2006-10-06 05:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are imo too young to be getting too serious, wait till you are older. Getting committed too young will always have you thinking did I settle for something when there is something better out there. And yes 1 month may be too soon for those three words but of course I woulsn't say those things to a woman unless I ment it myself
2006-10-06 05:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by DennisdaMenace55 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the rush? Do you want him to say it without meaning it? Wait till he says it first. One month is not a long time at all and you can't expect him to declare his undying love for you after the second date.
2006-10-06 05:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by yes darling 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for me, i have never said "i love you" to a girl before about 2 and a half, usually 3 months. so dont worry, it just means he's waiting for the right time to tell you, and trust me, when he DOES tell you, it'll be all that more special because he waited until he REALLY felt he loved you.
2006-10-06 05:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd give it at LEAST another month or two before saying it. You should not rush these things. But I think you will probably have to say it first. He will be very relieved to hear it too, so don't sweat it! Have a nice day!
2006-10-06 05:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful he likes you. Love comes after much time and getting to know each other.. Don't say it first it will scare them off and make them run for the hills.. Just enjoy this time, be yourself and be happy
2006-10-06 05:21:36 · answer #11 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋