So I dated this single mom with three kids, I ended up going first base with her in the first date, and a homerun if i had not told heri want to go slow.... Should I keep seeing her or is she getting desperate? im in my early 20's and so is she.
2006-10-05 22:16:06 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like her.... where does 'desperate' fit into the category? so what if she has 3 kids? can't hide 3 kids, you knew what you were getting yourself into. doesn't matter what the age is... I
swear to god (unless there is a 20 year difference) it really doesn't. that should not matter either...but you know..Society. i think you need to move on since you are asking this question.
2006-10-05 22:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate? There is nothing wrong with wanting sex. Just because she is a woman, she is desperate? For God's sake you are both in your early 20's. Loosen up! Man, some of you fellas are really uptight and seriously judgemental. I'm not sure you deserve to get to any base with this woman if you are going to think of her like that.
2006-10-06 05:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a single mother of 3 and in her 20's. discuss with her exactly what kind of relationship you want so none of you will get hurt. Ask yourself if you are willing to take care and feet 3 kids from another relationship and if she continues with this step in time you'll have some of your own too. Instead of going slow with her, think this situation through and see if you are willing to take the risk of someone ofyou falling in love.
2006-10-06 05:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk about "first base" and a "homerun". wow. you are WAY too immature to start a relationship with a single mother. you don't date the mom, you have a relationship with a woman AND her kids. Grow up, and stop thinking with your pants.
2006-10-06 05:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with her being horny. Or with you either for that matter. Just make sure it's what you both want, so things don't get out of hand i.e. misunderstandings, disappointments and expectations.
I (divorced), spent 3 years with a mother of 3 (also divorced) and all we both wanted was a physical relationship and good companionship. It worked out fine until she had to move far away.
Neither of us had any regrets or misgivings. It could possibly work for you too.
2006-10-06 05:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense meant, but she's only in her early 20's and already with 3 kids; i think u deserve someone younger or perhaps unmarried or without kids.
2006-10-06 05:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by diplomat_safe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is desperate to cut it off if you go slow.
2006-10-06 05:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would'nt you keep seeing her if you like her? If your worried about moral issues aren't you the one that made the first move?
2006-10-06 05:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single mother of three in her 20's.....Do you really want that..are you even ready for that?
2006-10-06 05:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's not desperate she just wanted to get some thats all... and what type of guy would pass up sex. i mean lets be honest with ourselves what kind of guy are u
2006-10-06 05:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋