me i cant stand the guy what do i do ?? this guy is playing my son he will call him and im him and text him help i just got out of a bad marriage i dont want another bad relationship help please all my son i do lately is fight over this no stupid answers just serious please
2006-10-05 22:03:41 · 4 answers · asked by shasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP HAVING CONTACT WITH THAT GUY AND BE STRONG ENOUGH TO LET YOUR SON KNOW TOO THAT YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THE GUY
2006-10-05 22:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your son and explain to him, in as nice a way as possible, how you feel about this man. You also need to explain how you feel because of your recent divorce. Be as honest and tactful as possible but do not make your son feel like a loser because he likes this guy.
You don't say how old your son is but if he's older he may think he is trying to "save" you. He doesn't want you to be lonely and he might even feel a little like it was "his fault" that you got divorced. If you could get your son to open up a little so you could get a clue what his real motives are in maneuvering you towards this man. It might help you understand him better.
2006-10-06 05:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your son that you wish to find someone on your own and let him know your true feelings if he loves you he will respect your feelings, You can't let anyone pressure you into getting into another relationship if that is not wnat you want
2006-10-06 05:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by DennisdaMenace55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your son needs male company by the sounds of it.males do and talk stuff that girls don't.maybe you have a male friend or family member that can fulfill this role.boys need this.so often you see one parent family's these days and children really need two.
2006-10-06 06:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by zita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋