There is a girl in a class that I like and got to know, but very little. I text-messaged her a few times in the past couple of weeks and she responded friendly and nicely. Today we have been texting each other almost for half of the day and I had a feeling it was time to stop but I went on and all of a sudden she quit replying. What does that mean? Should I have just stopped when I knew it was time to stop? I asked her if she has a job and she said no, and then I asked her what does she normally do during her free time from school and she did not respond after that. Was that question too personal for the length of time that I knew her? I don't understand. Or maybe I should text her less next time? Where did I go wrong????
Oh yeah, it was during my school hours and she already left school. I was texting her during my classes.
2006-10-05 21:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by trillionaire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asking the same question over and over can be a problem too.
2006-10-05 21:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. texting for a half day is quiet a lot of time spent texting..
I guess u guys hit it off pretty smooth..
And yes maybe u should have stopped when u had to..
U realize when u text someone, theres a certain point in that moment that u feel llike, yeah..its the best time to stop..
Dont worry, its not because she hates u for asking watever u did just maybe u know..u just get tired..
Like talking on the phone..but the difference is when u talk, theres a proper goodbye must be said..through sms..u just have to stop..
Dont worry..wat i reckon is u relax and wait till her next response..Or apologise to her if u text too much...than stop there..
Dont push it too hard..i mean uve had a whole day sms-ing,think she might have some other things she has to do..think of it that way...
ok,gdluck..
2006-10-05 21:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking that isn't necessarily that personal. But maybe her battery had gotten low or realized she wasn't getting stuff she needed to get done, finished and out the way. Some ppl, usually will tell you that they have to go, but I guess in this girl's case she is more for dropping the whole conversation and doing something probably. I say its better to hang out with her in person instead of relying on texting, cuz technology usually craps out at one point or the other and you will have to eventually talk to her face to face. Also she probably stopped texting cuz she didn't want the teacher to catch you doing it and get you in trouble.
2006-10-05 21:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 03:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it quite annoying to constantly texting. If you want to have a conversation, use the phone the way it was intended to be used and call her. Or better yet, text her and invite her for coffee or ice cream after you get out of class. Use your common sense and go with your gut reaction..."it was time to stop".
2006-10-05 21:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by allheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a good idea not to be too obsessive - thats stalker behaviour
she probably has other things to do during the day, and so do you if you are in class
limit it to half an hour or so and then wait for her to text next time
2006-10-05 21:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by miz Destiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, make the tables turned... what would you do if a girl you thought you like seems to stalking you by sending you too many messages and then, asking you too many questions.
2006-10-05 21:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by pRoFouNd PrOfunDiTy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was busy or her credit has finished. sms her again and ask her if she is getting annoyed with your messages... see what she says... like: 'Hello. Hope u r fine and that you are not offended with my many sms. See you!
2006-10-05 21:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by trushka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might get bored of this texting thing.
2006-10-05 21:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by yanti b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was probaly doing something....how about talking to her face to face instead of texting...that might help too
2006-10-05 21:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋