I have been going out with this guy for the past four years. I love him to death, but he hasn't graduated high school yet. (He is 23)He has dyslexia and he has low self-esteem about the issue. I KNOW he smart (he builds computers). I have stressed to him how important that it is to me for him to have an education. I am in college and am planning on attending law school. How long should I wait for him to get his act together? Or am I just stupid and he will never grow up? Or how can I encourage him to get his GED?
2006-10-05 21:11:10 · 10 answers · asked by Meg 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi, just wanted to say stick with him if he treats you right. also don't push him. it's just added stress. encourage him by helping him get his G.E.D. that also means help him study for it. females should quit worrying more about moneyand how is he going to financially take care of me than finding someone who will be honest and faithful. if the man has a job and works hard and does things for you and is there for you . Stay with him that is Love. ok that's all i have to say. Good Luck with your relationship and I hope my advice helped
2006-10-05 22:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by HHC-TWISTED FKR 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-29 07:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has low self-esteem like you say, then the most important thing is for him to feel like you're supporting and encouraging him, as opposed to demanding something from him. Maybe try to give him a push to get started, without letting him feel like you're "making" him do it.
2006-10-05 23:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
till at the age of 24
2006-10-05 21:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by BASAVA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has got to be his choice - your being judgmental - and not a nice girlfriend be honest! If you love him you must accept his life choices just as he accepts yours.He sounds lovely you will regret it after 4 years he gets fed up with your pushing!
2006-10-05 21:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just love him so much.... then it will be worth waiting.
But Mmm... 23 yrs old in high schooL.
That is somehow quite interesting to me.
2006-10-05 21:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ching y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's nice that you have such concern for the weak
but I think you may grow and develop personally in a way that exceeds the possibilities of the involvement with him.
2006-10-05 21:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy is less mature than girls. i think got to wait till he is 30 years old .
2006-10-05 21:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
offer to help him study
2006-10-05 21:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by hwall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss openly with him. Then he will tell you when it will be.
2006-10-05 21:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋