2006-10-05 20:55:29 · 26 answers · asked by sameer c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh dear, what a mess you are in.
1stly, u shouldn't even be having an affair! this means u have not committed yourself to the 1st one.
and why you are falling for the 2nd one, cos you have cheated before and want to cheat again. the feeling is good.. but morally no good.
if you have an intention to go back to your 1st one, my advise is to stay away from anyone whom you have the slightest attraction to. you know yourself best. if you feel that you are attracted, stay away and go do something else. when you don't see, you don think and thus don't feel.
there are alot of men/women who always seem more attractive than your current partner. you have to learn to control yourself.
2006-10-05 21:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are already having an affair, so how much can you really love the person you are cheating on? Not fully, like they deserve. As far as the others, it's not love you are feeling, it is sexual desire, too very different creatures! And for everyone reading your post, at least the ethical ones, we are feeling great disgust! I hope they all realize that you could never be what they want or need!
2006-10-05 21:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not falling in love - your falling in lust.
If you or the other person is married, you should end it ASAP. Watch the news and see how many peoples lives are screwed up because of affairs.
2006-10-05 20:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tim43 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well an Affair and Love are two different things.
2006-10-05 20:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Veer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thing sometimes it is possible for a person to love more than one person. This is very easy to do. having an affair with more than one person sometimes helps you realize what you really have or appreciate. some people might not see it this way. your other partner will probably not agree with this, but you have to decide for yourself, because if you are feeling guilty, then this might be wrong.
2006-10-05 21:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by crackchecker2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the in elementary words honorable challenge to do is be particular your little ones or both properly-presented for...and be particular you're in a position to stay committed next time! i think you would possibly want to divorce your spouse, marry the different female...that enables the perfect risk of providing some type of homestead for your newborn. pay attention, even with the actuality that - kids WILL blame themselves for the divorce, and your older newborn will favor fairly some interest and help and probably counseling to get over this.
2016-12-04 08:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotions are a hard thing to contain and you need to catch any dangerous emotions before they get out of control. you need to nip this in the bud before you do something you'll regret and hurt people and get hurt yourself. emotional feelings don't equal love. love is much deeper than emotions. i would suggest to stick w/ the one you truly love, b/c if you go w/ another, there will always be someone else that feelings will grow for unless you catch them.... hope this helps at all.
2006-10-05 21:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Yee Haw 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not in love, just attraction - probably to both. Your maybe in love with the idea of being in love!
2006-10-05 20:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by candy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Our heart has four chambers. The upper right, the upper left, the lower right, and the lower left. You still have two vacant!
2006-10-05 21:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by junior 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you like being in an affair? the feeling of being caught is strongly addictive. lol
2006-10-05 20:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Hermione Malfoy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋