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okay here's the short story: my bf and i broke up-me with him- and in the meantime i am starting school as a transfer student and same with him.while we werebroke up he met some girl named jessica who now rules his world even though we are back together. i know that she has not done anything to me but i hate her and hold a grudge against her and i am not the type of person to hold a grudge against anyone. i cannot let go of this grudge even though i have never met this girl and called her names like slut, hore, etc. my bf doesnt understand why i cannot get over this, then recently i was invited to a party where jessica was going to come and i said no because i did not not if i could go and if i had any plans with my friends. it turns out that jessica was the one hosting the party and i was invited and then all of a sudden i was disinvited by the next day when i told my bf that i wanted to go.he said no can do since jessica wanted to know how many people are coming and so forth.help plz

2006-10-05 20:45:04 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

then i got all mad at amy bf for not doing anything for me and not taking my side. i have been distant with my bf lately because of jessica but appearantly likes me as a person and would like to meet me-how do i meet her even though i feel like she is taking my bf away from me? how can i let go of this stupid grudge-not only the party related thing-but in general since i despise this person w/o knowinh who she is. im sick of being played with!help plz!

2006-10-05 20:48:06 · update #1

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hey you . the same is the position with me .u did not mention ur age .but still______.its okay .do ur bf really likee her ?this is the question to be answered first .if not there is nothing to be afraid of .in love there should be trust .trust rules over anything else .may be jessica is in love with ur bf .go to her speak to her and make friend ship with her this may help u probably to get over your grudge .look dear love is life dont ever dare to lose it if you lose it you will lose yourself forever . do some thing and make your boyfriend yours .only yours forever .and after doing this never leave him .because i know that pain.good luck .byeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

2006-10-05 21:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you are just jealous because there is another girl in your bf's life. not that there is anything going on with them. but all girls are very protective about their bf's when it comes to him having another girl as a friend. you need to get over the fact that you are jealous and try and be friends with his friends. otherwise you are going to get too paranoid for your bf to handle and that may lead to you breaking up again and maybe forever.

2006-10-05 20:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Carrying a grudge is like drinking poison and then hoping that it kills your enemies. Give yourself a break.

2006-10-05 20:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by The professor 4 · 0 0

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