there're two boys askin me to be with.
I like both and I can't choose. what should I do?
2006-10-05 20:12:02 · 20 answers · asked by asuka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it's unfair
2006-10-05 20:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get two boyfriends. Middle school may not be high school, but that doesn't mean that drama and rumors won't start. Trust me, I had a reputation in middle school of being a total man whore and it's not a good thing. Once you get that kind of rep it follows you for quite some time. I had two girlfriends and they found out about each other very fast. One girl will tell her friends that she's dating me and then that girl tells her friends and so on, and the same with the other one your dating. Then when they eventually find out, all those girls or guys in your case will not be interested in dating you because of your bad rep. Ever since then I had to practically start over from scratch and had to prove that I changed, just for girls to even consider me a dating option. It's so not worth it. I would advise just breaking up with your current bf and moving to the next guy.
2016-03-17 04:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you already intimate with each other?? Since they are ASKING you, it means you have not made any long-term commitent to either of them; neither is really your boyfriend. At best, both of them are your dates.
Be very clear to both you are dating other guys too, you don't want to be a 2-timer. Till you're really sure who you like a lot more, there's no rush to get into a relationship. Time will tell which guy is the one for you. Good luck!
2006-10-05 20:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by MyQute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fun at first and I know you can pull it off but in the long run you will be the one to get hurt.If you really like both these guys,I suggest that you choose one and let the other move on with his life.If you truly are just enjoying the game and there are no feeling attached then continue.But please dont do this if you really like one of them.You could end up with none of them!
2006-10-05 20:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Provided that they both know about each other, there's no problem. If you're sneaking around between the two you'll end up in a position where you have NO boyfriends though. Honestly and trust people! (and condoms)
2006-10-05 20:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Licky Licky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one: Take your time
Don't rush. You don't owe either one of them anything.
Over time if you let your INSTINCT guide you, you'll most likely be happy with the choice you made.
If you date them both sooner or later they'll find out about each other and you'll have a school shooting on your hands or worse.
JUST KIDDING.
2006-10-05 20:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with most of the people on here wait to be fair to them and realise that you can't always have wat u want in life.... put urself in their shoes if they hav finally plucked up the guts to ask you it means they really like you and if u say yes to them both and either of them finds out not only will they be extremely upset but they will probably start spreading rumours about u n u wont hav a problem of having to choose again as no one will be asking... jus think about it
2006-10-05 20:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by amelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously don't love neither of them..because I myself, can't love two people at the same time, so you either choose one or be a good friend to both of them :)
2006-10-05 20:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by white rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a wife & 2 girlfriends. I guess I'm not a moral authority. How do you feel? If you're asking the question . . .
2006-10-05 20:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..take ur time..or to be fair..just leave em both n sure u will find the perfect guy later on..
n never ever choose them both coz what will be ur feeling when ur bf have other gf..
good luck!~
2006-10-05 20:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contest, tie them both at the train tracks, whoever get out fast and alive, wins! give me the other one! seriously, what if your boyfriend likes 2 women? one of them is you, do you want to share your boyfriend with other girl? think about it? scenario: you are going to be monday till wednesday and paris will be thursday till saturday and sunday is threesome! guess who is in the middle? goodluck!
2006-10-05 20:21:55 · answer #11 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋