just some stories that have worked, im not forcing him, just maybe giving him a shove in the right romantic direction. old wives tales even! :)
2006-10-05 19:51:06 · 13 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
There are several ways!
Be fun but don't appear you'd jump into bed with every guy you meet.
Show him you love babies/kids and hint by saying,"I wonder how mine will look like?"
Show him what he will be missing if he isn't LIVING WITH YOU (good food that you cook, good at-home movies, convenience, boost of his self-esteem, etc) unless you don't intend to live together after marriage.
But the thing with guys is this - they don't usually want to fix anything unless something is broken. So if you'e having a good smooth relationship, he may not want to marry or change anything for FEAR OF CHANGE. The less scared he is of life-long committment, the more likely he would pop the question.
Just forget about the "OOOps I am pregnant" trap. It won't work and even if it does, would that be for love or responsibility?
2006-10-05 20:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by MyQute 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can go find yourself a witch doctor and have a spell put on him.
But seriously... there's really nothing you can do but be patient. I'm on the same boat. Just waiting but enjoying every minute we have together until the moment happens. Just know that your relationship is headed in that direction. Don't be affraid to talk about it and IF you really just can't wait... be a modern woman and ask him :)
2006-10-05 22:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by silv2078 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to MAKE him. When he is ready he will ask you. Dont rush it or it wont be right. A proposal is a very special thing that should, in my opinion be romantic, timed well, and very thought out. Best of luck.... be patient and you'll see that if its right it will eventually happen :)
2006-10-05 20:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prolly not gonna work.
Have you two ever talked about marriage together?
If you are going to bring it up, be sure the conversation flows into it. May take some patience. Don't force it.
2006-10-05 19:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the big rush that he has to be shoved? Why don't you do the asking? It is a different time and women have just as much place to be asking if that is your thing- marriage.
2006-10-05 19:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to make/cohearse him into doing this?
Have a heart-to-heart and let him know where you are at.
If you push him into something he doesn't want to do/isn't ready for he will resent you for it and you might not be able to trust that his intentions are genuine....
2006-10-06 04:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to LET HIM POP U 1ST before u can even think about making him pop da question. I doubt it, he'll probably be gone by then.
2006-10-05 19:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe ask him where the relationship is headed?
2006-10-05 20:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'll be answering his question on fun ways to string you along.
2006-10-05 19:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Euro Cop 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait until he's ready. dont push the question or you could push him away
2006-10-06 18:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by shelly h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋